Healthy Sex Support Group

MissBlue, the initial attraction has to be there. If a lady has such a problem then there are things she can do to take care of them. If a lady wants to present herself as extremely hairy everywhere then she will have to find the man that enjoys that look. I know that ladies that are turned off by excessively hairy men and ladies that love excessively hairy men. Again, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Let me add one thing. We all probably have something about us that we take care of as best as possible to cover up. Some have bad breath issues due to issues beyond their control but that doesn't mean that they should avoid using mouth wash. People with acne feel very self conscious and will do their best to cover their face with a skin colored cream to hide it. Balding men go through such extremes. I never penalize anyone with conditions but those that do not give a damn about it. I can overlook things but attraction still has to be there initially.

As the old saying goes "The more the cushion the better the pushin!" :>P

haha yeah i like that saying.


and yeah there has to be some sort of attraction there. i was skinny when i got with bf, then had baby and now more cuddly, but still got my personality through out too. ah im rambling and probably making no sense lol :) *shuts mouth* =x

Yeah i suppose i come into the cuddly category too and thats why we were discussing this. I said that men only liked thin women and my friend said that i was out of touch and that a hell of a lot of guys like their gals to have 'a bit of meat on their bones'.

I LIKE WOMEN OF ALL SHAPES N SIZES ......THERE JUST HAS TO BE A CONNECTION

^5's to the 'a bit of meat on their bones'

I prefer voluptuous, but my wife is not. I did not marry her for her looks, but she is quite attractive. Honesty remember....

I for sure fall in the 'cuddly meat on my bones' catagory..and when I left my X i feared not being found attractive to another man.....oh well, let's just say, that dillusional bubble has been popped more than once..LOL

I find so many men making fun of larger women, and claiming not finding them attractive in person. I think alot of men don't admit to finding larger women attractive to their friends and peers. No offense just telling what I see where I live.