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For years I was with the worlds biggest asshole. Since leaving him, I have had a couple casual encounters. But I want so much more. I want sex with all the emotions that are SUPPOSED to be there. I want to make love with a man and not feel empty afterwards. I am so sick of feeling used. I want to know I am valued and loved and cherished. Now keep in mind, most of me doesnt believe in love anymore, but there is that part that still wants to believe. I am 31 years old, with 3 kids. Is it childish to still hold onto the hope?
Posted on 01/29/08, 03:01 pm
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Reply #1 - 01/29/08  3:04pm
" Not at all fallen..31 isn't old..it's the new 20! Seriously though, that's not a childish thought at all. There are men out there looking for that same thing and it's certainly not easy. I have no doubt you will find someone and you will be posting here all the great things about your healthy sex life with mr fallen. The hope is what keeps it all alive and what will help you be open to that guy when he comes around. "
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Reply #2 - 01/29/08  3:11pm
" Sweetie ,I dont know you as I know some on here but Im sure that you have alot to offer someone special.Waiting on love is very hard ,especially if you have had it and lost it!! I have been divorced for almost two years now ,and am searching as you are,but I am 39 ,and the body isnt what it used to be ,but the mind is ten times stronger!!That someone special is out there for both of us,we just have to be patient,love is somthing that requires EVERYTHING,not a few things ,,hold on and dont settle for anything less,,YOU DESERVE THAT!!! "
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Reply #3 - 01/29/08  3:12pm
" not at all, you are young, attractive and you have a sense of humor, can tell by your pic! and i think we have all been hurt, had that empty feeling you are talkin bout. there is always hope, there are some good single or divorced guys out there! "
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Reply #4 - 01/29/08  3:19pm
" Don't give up hope. You will find the person you are looking for. I looked for years, and when I stopped looking, I found my husband. He is unlike any other man I have been with, and if I can find that person, you certainly can!! "
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Reply #5 - 01/29/08  3:32pm
" Always keep your hope honey.
Hey, its all I've got!! "
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Reply #6 - 01/29/08  3:33pm
" i think its extremely important to keep that hope alive. you will find him, im sure. you are such a good person and so very beautiful. you are going to make some man very very happy one day. and he you. "
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Reply #7 - 01/29/08  3:35pm
" You are a beautiful, witty, horney woman. Any man would be LUCKY to have you in his life. Don't ever give up on hope! You are still so young, there is the perfect man out there waiting for you. Go find him! "
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Reply #8 - 01/29/08  4:13pm
" OH babygirl, I could have almost written that word for word. I'm sorry I have no helpful insight to give this time. Just know you're not alone. And I think we have to still hope. If we don't, what do we have left? I'm not saying foolishly hope, we do have to be realistic and go on living life the best we can. I don't know. Let me find out if you get any answers! Love you honey! "
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Reply #9 - 01/29/08  4:22pm
" NO NO NO! I want to feel that way again and I know i will i know now that I am worthy just like you I wont give up dont you we all have bad days we have to keep on moving and talk to are friends to get us on the right track you deserve love just ware it will finde you "
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Reply #10 - 01/30/08  8:19am
" Thanks you all. Last night I came so close to making a monumental mistake. I picked up my phone and almost called this cop I had dated a while back just to come over and well you know...
Nothing wrong with casual sex, but at this stage in my life, it would have been less than gratifying. Not to mention, unfair to him. He has made it clear he wants more, but I just dont feel "it" for him. So now my search for "Mr. Right" continues.........lol
*hugs* to all of you. You all are the best! Muwah! "
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