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if she's already cheating with you on the new bf, then it doesn't seem like it would take much encouragement on your part to further it with her. why not be forward with her?

Try "nice shoes, wanna fuck?"

How about move on and have sex with someone else. She is your Ex for a reason, right? You can't pick and chose what you like or enjoy about a woman. It's one package. Move on.

Kevmar is right. You obviously aren't with her anymore for a reason. Trust me when I say I understand...my ex was the best sex I've had, and it pained me to have to move on from that, but I knew it wasn't right to just sleep with him if I wasn't prepared for the baggage that came with it. It sucks, but you gotta move on. Sleeping with her will just keep you stuck in the past.

Personally I think its kind of trashy of her to be seeing another guy and cheating on him with you....sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. If you want a FWB thing with her, you should talk to her about that specifically. However, it sounds like maybe you might want to find someone a little more respectable...she's sleeping with at least one other person, and all that spells is STD risk for you.

I can see what the girls on here are saying. I'm guessing you're okay with the fact she's cheating on her b/f, b/c the sex is SO good, right? I can understand why you think that. But honestly?

Why try and impress her and get her coming back to you if its clear she wants to be with someone else? Isn't that an insult to you? Move on. Find another girl. Thats just my $.02.

laughing at RS!!


I agree with everyone else but then again if she's that kind of girl and you just want sex then try playing hard to get. lol, it works for us so it might work for you. I'd move on and find someone new to be with that wants to be with me only. If she's willing to cheat on him and is so open about it with you then what do you think she did when she was with you.