Healthy Sex Support Group

How young?

15, 16+

Warning, warning...I think since you posted this, there is a part of you that knows this is wrong. IMO

You could get in big trouble w/that age...Do you know why you prefer this age?

Dude not to be rude or nasty with you but as the parent of a 15 year old daughter...if I knew a 20 year old guy was after her I would be after him with the long end of a shot gun! I wouldnt go there if I were you.....

Jeff, you're taking a big chance just by posting this...

Hopefully the thought of being killed in prison (they love to lynch pedophiles) will quell those fantasies. Find a skinny girl who's 18+ but looks 15-16 and be happy.

I don't think you should find a girl that is older but looks younger. That would just play up your fantasy. You need to figure out why you like younger girls and come to terms that it's not healthy. If you were 25 and she was 20 it would be a whole new ball game but going for a 15-16 year old is dangerous grounds. I have always been attracted to older guys, even in high school but it wouldn't be fair to them to go to jail for dating me. And who wants to start a relationship with the parents hating you? Any girl who is 15-16 that has parents with morals will not at all be cool with you, a 20 year old man dating their daughter. My brother-n-law is with my sister because she is skinny and looks like a teen even at 28 years old. Want to know where it has got him?? Sure his wife is hot and always *looks* like the youngest and most in fit of his friends wives but he STILL yearns to live out that young girl fantasy. Now, he's on probation for just looking!!! Trust me Jeff, go for an 18 year old or up. If you have your eye on a particular 15-16 year old then WAIT for her to turn 18.

I think you need to maybe get some therapy to figure out WHY you like younger girls. If you're attracted to 15, 16 year olds at 20, that is not completely out of the ordinary (seeing as many 15 year old girls these days dress and act like they're 25...). The problem will come when you get older and the girls you like are still 15. However, if as you age so do the girls, down the road it might not be as big of a problem (as in, if you're 25 and dating 20 year olds, etc).

I think lynn is right though, obviously you posted this because you think it is an issue, so please seek professional help before you do something to get yourself in trouble.

If I may inquire, Jeff, do you like young girls because they're SKINNY? Older women put on weight (especially after having a kid). I too am afflicted with skinny-girl syndrome. I like other types too, but the skinny ones really get my juices flowing...

Short of therapy, maybe this'll help.

Jeff, coming from a guy who has always dated younger woman , I am 35 and my GF is 25 . i know the appeal of someone younger is always tempting, HOWEVER !!!!!! You got to step the age up ALOT. I caution you HEAVILY to be weary of POSTING things like this on here. Even thought this group has discussed many many topics , THIS IS NOT FOR THIS SITE. I also disagree with one of the posters about you not finding someone older who looks younger. if thats what youy have to do to keep you eyes of someone UNDERAGE then do that. At least it will not be wrong in the eyes of your peers and THE LAW..... If these thoughts are in a more perverse manner do to their age, you may want to see someone who can get you some help. PRISON is not a place you would like for this to come out in...... PEACE

Lets not all gang up on him though. He had some balls posting this. I think you realize there is a problem or a potential problem or you wouldn't have asked our advice.

I do agree you should definitely stay away from them or you will be up to your eyeballs in problems. Maybe you like the fact these young girls look up to you and depend on you. Or maybe the fact the girls think they are "so cool" for being with an older guy so you know they will put up with more. Don't know. But there are perks too with being with an older girl. You are a man now. Whether you want to be or not. You gotta stick to those your age.

Best of luck to you!