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My first post, so kinda feeling weird. I have been trying to get my husband to "go down" on me for the past 9 1/2 years. He has never done it to any of his ex's and he wont even think about trying with me. How do I get him to atleast try. I have never had it done before and I really want to have that experience. Not to mention to spice things up a little. So how do I get him to??
Posted on 04/22/08, 06:04 pm |
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when he is asleep, get up over him with a clean smelling kitten and straddle him..make some slow moaning noises even though he isn't doing anything yet,..DON'T SUFFOCATE HIM just,..be above him,..tee hee 
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LOL Go beanfields!
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Yeah, I hate to say it too, but it sounds like he's not giving on this one. That sucks though! Do you go down on him? Thats not even fair if you do!
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There is no way that I would continue givin him bj's if he wouldn't return the favor, EVER!
Unfortunately it sounds like that's his story and he's stickin!
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HE DID IT!!!!!!! OMG I CAN'T BELIEVE HE DID IT! Thanks guys, the with holding of bj worked!!HE DID IT!!!! WooooHoooo!!!!!!!!
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hope it was good. I was going to suggest you spraying his favorite perfume on your panties or something. Something that wil get his face down there. Witholding a BJ always works though. LOL How a guy can not like licking pussy is beyond me. Hmmph!
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Does he expect/like you to give him head? I'm going to guess yes....so why does he get to enjoy oral and you don't? Doesn't seem very fair to me. However, you don't want it to feel forced, or else neither of you will enjoy it!
Has he heard you talk about getting oral from previous partners? If so, perhaps he's got "performance anxiety" and is worried that he won't know how to do it properly. I felt this way with my first serious bf; I had never gone down on a guy and didn't want to suck at it. No pun intended lol. So I looked up some tips online and made sure it was the best damned bj he ever got : ) I would be forward with him like the others suggested. If he's not willing to compromise, I think maybe there are deeper communication issues at work...good luck!
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Ha...well I guess I was a little late to the party, but good for you! : )
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