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Reply #1 -
07/10/08
2:30am
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hi it depends what yous are arguing about.is it the same thing all the time. hope you sort things soon. 
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Reply #2 -
07/10/08
2:32am
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Its mostly the same thing all the time. She doesnt believe I love her but I really do....
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Reply #3 -
07/10/08
3:06am
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she s probably very insecure.me and my x argued bout the same thing all the time.and because he wouldnt talk about it he d walk away.it split us up.i no its hard.keep talking.
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Reply #4 -
07/10/08
4:19pm
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You might want to try couples counceling to get a nuetral view on the situation. It sounds like you both need to do something. She needs to let her insecurities go and trust you if you have not given her reason not to. You need to find out what she really needs as far as attention and what would make her feel the feelings you have for her. Maybe it is just a lack of communication. Good Luck
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Reply #5 -
07/10/08
5:39pm
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Her level of needing affection is higher than yours. Your best is not "good enough" for her, and never will be, so it might be time to bail...
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Reply #6 -
07/11/08
12:53am
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I agree with the couples counseling...my fiance and i had some issues that we were completely on different pages about 100% and it helped a lot to talk to other professionals about it.
Good luck...
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Reply #7 -
07/12/08
12:24am
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Hey man it's not all your fuck ups. You start blaming yourself for everthing and you are going to be in big trouble. It's not all your fault, it takes 2 to tango.
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Reply #8 -
07/12/08
9:02am
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If your truly are doing your best, and it's not enough for her, then I agree on the counseling bit. Some input/feedback/suggestions from an outside professional source could really help both of you. One other thing to possibly ask yourself: are you trying to hard? See if you can be easier on yourself. I hope you both can find some peace with each other. If you love her and you're having to prove it somehow, my guess would be that SHE needs help as well.
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Reply #9 -
07/14/08
6:14am
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wow "how do i be a beeter man?" girls everywhere are swooning at the mere fact that want to know that. sometimes women, like myself in the past. get really needy, i am not sure as look back and see that but it happends. honestly, there was nothing that guy could have done to make it better-maybe you two should take some time apart, to let her realize how much life sucks without you. time heals everything, if my guy would have shown me some tough love, i would have reaLIZed early on how important he was to me. of course we didnt work out because we never took a step back. i miss him but he taught some very important lessons abouyt life-never take the person you care about for granted.
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Reply #10 -
07/14/08
6:14am
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wow "how do i be a beeter man?" girls everywhere are swooning at the mere fact that want to know that. sometimes women, like myself in the past. get really needy, i am not sure as look back and see that but it happends. honestly, there was nothing that guy could have done to make it better-maybe you two should take some time apart, to let her realize how much life sucks without you. time heals everything, if my guy would have shown me some tough love, i would have reaLIZed early on how important he was to me. of course we didnt work out because we never took a step back. i miss him but he taught some very important lessons abouyt life-never take the person you care about for granted.
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