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... my boyfriend and I are officially broken up - once and for all, for good. That's it. Stick a fork in me. I'm done.
So here's what happened to cause this. I'm only gonna get into the full story on my actual journal, but the basic run down is this: he stole $500 out of mine and my dad's joint checking account. Sometime last week I got a new debit card in the mail from the bank and since he wasn't living there anymore I just tossed it into my nightstand, not thinking anything about it. I thought it was kinda strange that they would randomly send me one, since they didnt send one to my dad, but I thought ... okay whatever. Until today. I fell asleep sometime around 9 AM (dont ask, ok) and slept for about 3 hours. I woke up and Lucas had gone to Walgreens, and out to look for a backpack, or at least that's the story I heard. A few hours later, my dad calls me while I'm hangin' out at my friend's house and tells me someone used the debit card an ATM 3 times, withdrawing $500 in total. Huh. Imagine that. 500 is the magic number, the limit you can do before they investigate. So he completely denies it, of course. He's got all these reasons that it's not logical for him to have done it and all this hullaballoo. All the same old run around. Nothing he said at all was surprising. But looking back through the day there were so many things that seemed out of place that are now all clicking into place and making sense. Anyway, yah ... so ... he sucks. And he's gone. So let's celebrate, shall we? Posted on 05/13/08, 10:05 pm |
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Yayyy good for you :) You are awesome and deserve better anyway. 
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Dude, I so agree. I was just saying that to my friend Lisa Lisa on the phone, that I am pretty much the embodiment of awesome and can do way better than some midget with an attitude problem.
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Not to sound mean but what a SCUZZ BAG. You dont need that you can do so much better. But heres something I earned along time ago. Dont fall for the 1st sexy guy you see... live for you do the things you want to do with out someone tell you no.... Have fun being single. I know its tough I am married and feel single.
But remember everything happens for a reason.. Carma is a B**CH and he will gt his
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The atm's have photos and video. They are gonna be able to trace all that. I would sue him for all the money back. I'm sorry you had to lose your relationship like this. I know that hurts.
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I'm sorry to hear this.
Sorry that it took something like this to make you realise that this relationship is over. Sorry that this experience might prejudice your opinion on men in general.
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the embodiment of awesome...i like that attitude!
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lonliedove: Please, dont worry about sounding mean by calling him a scuzz bag. If that's what you think of as mean, then you'd probably explode if you heard some of the crap he's said to me. And, I admit, vice versa ... but hey, pushers get pushed and hurt people hurt, right?
#4: They dont prosecute (sp?) for $500 or below, so I can't do anything to them criminally. And as far as civil court goes, it wouldnt work there either because the bank will reimburse us the money, and they're off the hook regardless. 5: My opinion of men wasn't very high to begin with. I dont mean any offense to you, of course. It's one of those deals where ... as a whole you hate 'em, but per-individual-basis you might find one that's not 100% jerk. And just to update everyone: I now think they were both in on it. I think that their plan this whole time was to take the money out and see if the bank would cover it, and if so then tell me about it later. Or just keep it for themselves. Either way, this is what I'm thinking, and the reason for that is because of the times the withdrawls were made. Just looking back in my journal, from when I started that entry (it's a three parter) I wrote that I slept from 9 am to 12 pm. The withdrawls were at 1:40, 1:41, and 1:42 PM, which is when I know they were out together, AND it happened at our favorite bar. Unfortunately I dont know the bartenders that work the dayshift but I'm still going to try to find out regardless if either one of them or both were there yesterday.
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"My opinion of men wasn't very high to begin with"
Perhaps there lies the problem ?
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I am happy to know.
Read your journals (took a while), and all I can saw is wow!
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Most ATM's have cameras, so I would know FOR SURE who used the card.
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