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wanted to get some advice from people that have been in a gay male relationship w/ a bi sexual, who treated you bad, ie. affairs w/ women,convict,drug addict, alcoholic, physical & emotional abuse,. anyways im or i should say i WAS in a relationship w/ another bi sexual guy, im still living w/ him but have my own room. i dont know why but ive been overwhelmed w/ him cheating( we run a small lawn/ tree service and he has this "personal" banker at the bank who has been" taking care "of our "over draft fees" up to like 300.00 ( is that normal?) i see her name and now 2 others that are doing it for him...WTF? Then he makes me sound crazy or my favorite...."just like a girl!" i want to puke every time he says it cause thats all he can say, oh yeah and he gets way too defensive.
about it , And YES I HAVE BEEN GOING THROUGH OUR COMPUTERS AT HOME. HE TELLS ME " IF I WAS, I WOULD TELL YOU?" shit i help his ass out w/ this company and the bitch dont clean....until he HAS too blah! so i do it. just someone give me some advice! and yes he knows about my former relationship! Posted on 10/09/08, 06:10 pm |
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Well, I just came out of a 5 year relationship..The asshole broke my heart..I met a guy last week, who is bi..We like each other very much, but I fear I will be in your situation..He is not "out" to his straight friends and etc..anyway, I would tell your partner how you freakin feel bout what he is doing..Its not fair too you. I would bre pissed..I hope you own have the company, you help build. I still live with the ex bastard. But I have seen my bi guy, three times..We click very well..BUt for ur problem, i would lay all the issues on the table, and demand the truth, no matter how it hurts..I lived a lie for a year with my partner because I refused to believe his was seeing others. but turned out he was..what goes around, comes back around, believe that..I am here for ya if you want to talk more..my yahoo messenger id is in my profile..Good luck to you..kevin b 
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It sounds like you are in a lot of pain. Its really tough to make wise decisions when I get into such an emotionally charged state. If you can, it might help to "detox" from him for a while. Addicts are very unpredictable and can get very destructive. Focus on taking care of yourself.
~ Mike
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I can totally relate. It sounds like your situation is worse than mine. My guy is really awesome but I can't get a commitment from him and it hurts a lot because I really love him. i know he loves me too but he's not ready to settle down. He has a couple of girlfriends and he is very open with me about that. He doesn't lie to me but the girls don't know about me. I guess I should be glad that I'm the one he is honest with. My problem is that I don't get enogh time with him because he is always so busy. He's a very active guy who has a lot of interests. When we argue, he calls me a woman too. i told him that I am kind of like a woman. If I were like him, we wouldn't be together. i hope things get better for you. It sounds like you are not happy and you should end it if you feel it's not going anywhere.
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