Female Sexual Issues Support Group

I just went through this with my ex. I said no. he begged, whined, pissed and moaned. I agreed to relent IF, I got to have a man included for me. so he had his woman, i had my man, life would be good? Nope. he changed his mind. he said he couldnt bare to watch another please me in any way. I said good now you know how it feels to me. I warned him then never to ask mefor something that he would be unwilling to do himself. He agreed and never did. But this is just me. Yours may not be so agreeable. If your H would divorce you for something as minor as this,...I'd say good ridance to him hes a selfish bastard. BUT if you decide to do it, tread carefully, lay down ground rules, BEFORE you do it, I have always kind of thought that asking someone else to get involved in the intimacies of the relationship is just beggin for trouble. Think it over, really well.

I would say just say no, that is not what you want. Or you could tell him, "Sure, as long as it is another man."