Female Sexual Issues Support Group

When are you telling them? Wait awhile, build the relationship first, and don't rush into a sexual situation for awhile. If you are telling them right after you meet, then you aren't giving them time to get to know you.

See that's just the problem. Guys don't wanna give you any time around here nayways! I go out on a date, and they always want sex when they meet you. Always. So, I tell them that, and then they want nothing else to do with me. I have been on a million dates since my divorce, and I have not yet met a man of any age that did not ask about sex when we meet. Needless to say, I have gone a long time without sex. lol!! I want to meet a guy who who actually dates...But I don't think that happens anymore. :(

They are worth it, if they want sex that fast. If they aren't at least willing to get to know you.

I dont know if you would feel comfortable with this approach but instead of telling them dont tell them when you meet them and make use that you are protecting yourself with condoms being mindful that you do have Herpes.If you are having an outbreak make sure that you dont have sex because you could spread it to your partner. If that person doesnt want to have anything to do with you anymore then sweetie they are not for you. Just be patient I know that it has been 4 years but the right one is coming and will accept you for you despite you having Herpes. People just tend to me so immature when it comes to personal issues, I believe that they should be glad that you are informing them but its not always the case. But for the mean time just try that approach and see if that approach works for you.

Have you ever thought of maybe trying to find a guy that also has herpes? It's a VERY common STD. Try looking online. I know online dating can be weird and all but you never know what you might find.