What is Female Sexual Issues

Sexual dysfunction or sexual malfunction is difficulty during any stage of the sexual act (which includes desire, arousal, orgasm, and resolution) that prevents the individual or c...

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I'm still a virgin but I've been thinking about having sex with my current boyfriend. I mean we've touched each other and a few things like that but nothing vaginal. I am embarrassed being nude in front of other people. And I am really nervous about my first time. Though we have talked about it, we never came to a full decision. And he hasn't said much on how much he wants it. But he that he does want it when I'm ready.

How do I know I'm ready?
Posted on 08/10/08, 04:08 pm
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Reply #1 - 08/11/08  2:09pm
" I think when you're ready you'll just know. You won't be second guessing it like you're doing now. It'll just be something that happens. whenever you do decide to do it ensure that he wears a condom.

Just follow your gut and it's great that he's not pressuring you. That shows that he truly cares for you. Don't rush it. "
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Reply #2 - 08/12/08  1:26pm
" I agree with Precious, You'll know in your heart when it's right!! Remember, You only get 1 time to make the right decision for your first time, So make it a very memoriable one. You truly never forget your first. Don't rush it. Follow your heart not your hormones. Best of luck to you!! BIG HUGS, Theresa "
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Reply #3 - 08/13/08  9:58am
" If you are asking questions about it................then you are not ready..

It is hard to describe but in all Honesty.you will definetly know..and why give the milk away for free..It will not strengthen the relationship between the two of you at all.sex is such a minor part of a good relationship... "
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Reply #4 - 08/16/08  9:36pm
" This is going to sound corny, but when you are ready you will know. Don't worry about being nervous when you decide to have sex the first time. Everyone is thier first time, (most people don't want to admit it though....) Good luck with making your decision. It sounds like you've got a good guy who is waiting for you and isn't pressuring you. "
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