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Okay I am really sheepish to talk about this. I have been going with my BF for a couple of months. Now the sex is incredible but... He has not had an orgasm yet! I mean yeah it may seem like anyones dream to have a guy go for hours and still not orgasm. But me I am feeling as though I am doing something wrong. He says it is normal for him and when he is tired it is like that and he has been extremely tired lately. And he has not had sex with anyone etc for 2 years before me. There is no problems with him getting aroused he does just kissing me etc. What can I do for him to help him with this if there is anything. I have never had anyproblems with this with any of my ex's in fact they have a hard time not orgasming with me! So what do I do with him. I know it is him but I want to please him also. I mean I have trouble orgasming also and do not usually do it during sex, but I have never met a man who is the sam e way. (I guess we are two of the same people in many many ways huh!?? ) Any suggestions?? And if Im not in the right group please direct me to the correct one. Thank you!
Posted on 06/26/08, 07:06 am |
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Does he ever eventually orgasm, like when he masturbates?
Being tired could probably have a lot to do with it. I hope someone has a better answer for you. 
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No he doesnt Masturbate at least that I know of we have only begun having sex and we do not that often since he has a 3 year old and I have 2 boys so we are usually with the kids etc and he can stay over very seldom for us to do so.
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Are the children in the house when ya'll have sex? They may make him uneasy about having sex, even if they are asleep in the other room
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No not always the kids arent around and he has said he has always been like this! I just want to be able to make him happy. He says he loves it but still!
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I had this issue once with an ex...he was on antidepressants. Is he on any meds?
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yes i've heard of this before... i think its called anorgasmia - so maybe you could google that term and add male to the start...
it can a side effect of several drugs, and affects both men and women. but if he's not taking anything i think it could still happen - might be genetic maybe. sounds like he has had orgasms sometimes... usually the starting point for a woman to learn to orgasm is to masturbate, so it might be the same for a guy. i think there is a male sexual issues group too - i'm sure they'd be understanding there too. male sexual dsyfunction includes erectile dysfunction (can't get it up or can't keep it up, or both), and difficulting orgasming and premature ejaculation. there are all kinds of nerves and chemical and hormonal issues involved so if he wants it looked at, a urologist is the man to see. it sounds to me like he IS happy/ok about it though... when he says he loves sex with you... then, believe him. he doesn't want you to feel upset.
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