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I just got home from my friend's house. I wanted to watch TV and go on the family computer downstairs, so I went into the family room. My dad was on the couch asleep with his shorts around his ankles. He was facing the TV so I didn't see anything more than his ass to his ankles, but still, it's creepy. This isn't the first time this has happened either. I forget how long ago it was, but I had just come home after hanging out with my friends and I went into the family room to watch TV. My dad was asleep on the couch NAKED. As in, I saw everything. Oh, and there was another time when I had come upstairs to get something to eat and he was asleep in the living room and there was porn on. I changed the channel to CSI Miami and then left, but I know it woke him up. I can't remember if he was naked that time. It was a few years ago.
I'm 21 and I've had a steady boyfriend for the last 6 and a half months, so I've seen a guy naked, but this is my dad. I'm really bothered by this. I told my mom about it and I know she talked to him and for a while after the first time it didn't happen again. But god, I HATE coming home to this. This is really disturbing. I've always been uncomfortable with any physical contact with him and it's intensified since this stuff started happening. What do I do? Do I just tell my mom again? I don't want to talk to my dad. I don't want to see that again, but I certainly don't want to tell him what I saw. All of this just makes me really uncomfortable. I don't want to see him even if he is clothed because he makes me uncomfortable. Has anyone else had this happen? I know everyone masturbates, but I still really don't want to see my dad naked. Posted on 10/04/08, 12:10 am |
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I do remember once when I was checking to see who was home and I opened the garage door and my dad was naked in there. THAT was freaking awkward. 
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Thankfully I've never had to see my parents naked since they divorced when I was little...but,my mom used to wear her skimpy nightgowns and walk around the house in them during the mornings...for some reason,I was fine with it because I couldn't see anything underneath. I just always prayed I never heard her and her boyfriends or saw them naked or having sex...I guess my praying worked ;-p
I've got a great suggestion for you if you catch your dad again....Go grab a bucket of ice cold water and throw it on him if he's naked and sleeping. When he wakes up,look him straight in the face and tell him "Sorry dad,I figured after doing something dirty like masturbating you needed a shower! Next time DO THIS IN PRIVATE,YOU'RE BEING TOTALLY INAPPROPRIATE!" Maybe that will shock him to be private when he does it...or face the wrath of you throwing ice water on him again! LOL If I had to walk in on that as you have,all I can say is... Yuck,yuck,yuck! Hugs,
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lol Though comical, I"m fairly certain he'd kill me for that.
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I agree with you i would fel creeped out also. If he wants to do things behind closed doors that is his choice but I feel that is very disrespectful. I would let my mother no again as you shouldn't have to come home to that, nor be exposed to that. I think i would have a hard time having a relasionship with him if he was my dad. I hope when your done with your schooling you and your boyfriend get your own place, maybe you will feel more comfortable. Sorry you have to feel the way you do, as a parent myself i would never allow such a thing to happen in my home around my children. My bedroom with my husband is my personal time, behind closed doors. Good luck and my heart goes out to you. kelly
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