A dysfunctional family is a family in which conflict, misbehaviour and even abuse on the part of individual members of the family occur continually, leading other members to accomm...
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violent abusive perverted older brother
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Im living at home with my son at my parents house and older brother lives here too Im so sick of his shit and abuse I feel like I want to kill him I hope and pray he has a bad accident and dies not really nice but Im so sick of him , all started out when I was about 23 yrs old and he was 26-27 yrs old he put a web camera in the bathroom and tried to film us taking baths and showers until I found the camera and told my parents they laughed at me made it into a joke my mum said he was probably trying to look at me I still cant work out why she would say that !!!! and now I take a bath with a towel over me and cover the shower with a towel I feel so uncomfortable in there now... Ive also found child pornography on his computer while I was looking for something else I found a photo of a 5 yr old girl with her legs spread and naked hes just sick and makes me sick everytime I look at him... anyway hes always hit me and my sister and doesnt anymore because my sister punched him when he tried to hit her when she got older and I stood up to him and said you touch me and I will kill you then I called the police when he tried to hit me , my mum works full time so I cook dinner sometimes, well last night he come home drunk and started abusing me saying wheres is my dinner you bludger and I said go cook your own you asshole he was trying to start an argument which he did and calling me a bludger (I fractured my ankle and Im still having problems with it and been seeing doctors) and to go out and get a job I thought who the hell does he think he is and told him its none of his buisness anyway he kept everyone up till 3:30 in the morning yelling abuse and barged my door a couple of times and broke the door lock becuase I keep the dog in and the dog was barking at him becasue she sensed his anger I suppose, so now I have to go buy a new door lock and then he was trying to turn my dad against me and saying either she goes or I go and that Im just using them lol what a joke all while dad was telling him to mind his own buisness and shutup and go to bed because hes drunk and then mum got up and said this is my house not yours and her and dad will decide who lives here then he left after screaming a bit more thankgod and hasnt come back yet Im hoping the only thing he comes back for is to get his stuff, this all happened last night I didnt say anything to him to cause him to say anything he just come home and started on me I dont speak to him anymore becasue I know what hes like now Im 27 and hes 30 and hes acting like a complete phsyco I just wanted to tell someone and maybe get a bit of advice I know its not good for me and my son to live here but I cant afford to move out though my brother can but still he chooses to live here Im just hoping hes gone for good... Im only living here becasue my sons father was violent and I had to move back and couldnt afford anywhere else...
Posted on 05/14/08, 07:05 pm |
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wow.....first watch your son..not sure how old he is but soundslike your bro has issues and i wouldnt allow children around him....stay safe andtry to leave as soon as possible 
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I was just wandering anyone know if you can get an avo on someone living with you
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Be careful watch your son I hope and pray things will get better for u and u can get away from the whole situation best wishes !!! From Samantha
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Ya your brother (sorry have to call him that, sure you wish he wasn't) defintely have issues.
See if you can get social assistance or something, because I don't think your brother can be trusted around your son or it's good for him to witness your brother's screaming and being drunk. Good luck.
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Ive been thinking about going into centrelink but I dont want to put myself in a worse situation single mum in housing commision no not for me I want to live in a nice house or townhouse with decent people around me not in housing commision with druggos and drunks and god knows what else been there done that, I will go and see centrelink after Ive had a good think about what Im going to do, Im just not ready yet and luckily my son is a deep sleeper and he slept through the whole episode..... which is good I had to buy myself another door lock today plus I put on a safety lock . if he moves out then I wont have to for a little while Im still recovering from my ex being so violent and I did feel a bit safer the thought of moving back home but after all my brothers bullshit I think I made the wrong decision well we learn from our mistakes I suppose..
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don't know what to say, but hope you are in therapy. I see you are in Aus.. so don't know what the laws are there, but personally, brother or not, I would report him to the police, or tell him to move out - or I am having him arrested...
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yeah if it was that easy I would have had him arrested ages ago, I have called the police once before about his behaviour and he turned around and lied to the police saying I was suicidal and that they should take me to the hospital making out I was the crazy one, so the police didnt believe a word I said to them, I was in the house at first and because they werent believing me I told them to get out of the house and they wouldnt so I walked out the front and they followed me and my brother was out the front and he sat their listening to what I was trying to tell them with a smirk on his face staring I screamed at him to piss off and the police made him go inside the house,but still they wouldnt listen and where asking me if I was on drugs... so calling the police is a waste of time becasue my brother will just lie to them again, Im going to move out if he doesnt and then get an avo on him so he cant come near me, I didnt come to live here for more abuse I came here to recover but I can see thats not going to happen with my brother around
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