Depression Support Group

not to be rude but I thought you posted this the other night. If you don't feel like this is a good place for you then its a good decision for you not to be here. All the Best.

Ash, if its making you feel bad, then do what you need to, but you dont need to post about it. Just my opinion.

wow am i glad that i've missed the most recent crap fight that went down on the board. folks are dropping out like flies in a raid cloud...good to take a break and keep you safe.

Good God people... Show a bit of sympathy for the girl... She is just apologizing and explaining how she feels. If you other people have a rite to post about your feelings, don't you think she has that same rite? It shouldn't matter if she does it once or one dozen times. This board is here for people to say how they feel.

She is correct. At times the things that do go on here can be toxic. Avoiding it does not make it go away. We need more CL's who can keep these 'outbreaks' of toxicity from taking control of the board.

Just my opinion...

assuming by people you mean me. I did not attack her. I did not say she was not entitled to her opinion. I said I thought I'd already seen this post and I wished her luck... what is wrong with that? Seriously, I'd like to know. Making a decision that a place is not good for you- if you are really making it is a good one in my opinion and I stated as much. Its an individual decision for a person to make and I personally think it is one that should be supported but NOT coddled for attention either- not saying that is the case here. LIke YOU said this is a place where people can post how they feel- which is what I do.

Inis... why do you always assume every comment is about you? You were not the only one who told her she did not need to post about her feelings... Truthfully... the main reason anyone posts here is for attention. You yourself should know... how many Bans posts are you up to now.... is it 4 or 5? I stopped counting...

I wish that they'd swoop down, in a country lane, late at night when I'm drivin... Take me onboard that beautiful ship..

Show me the world, as I'd love to seeeeeee it

First and foremost... I didn't tell her she did not need to post about her feelings. Those words never came out of my mouth so stop putting them in my mouth. Second since there were only three comment until your post why would I not assume that your comment wasn't in part directed at me.

As for the bans post- well actually if you look at the titles I number them so I'm up to 5. If you took the time to read them you'd see that while yes, I am hoping they draw attention... it is NOT personal attention or manipulation that I am looking for but rather attention to an issue that MANY people feel is a problem here on ds.

And once again you are misdirecting what I have said and avoiding a direct question. Are you now going to go to my friends and tell them what a mean bitch I am and how you are afraid of me and what I will do again?

I don't have to tell them. Many of them can see it for themselves...

Your saying "not to be rude but I thought you posted this the other night." Sounds like a complaint on her posting to me... and others...

ok my two cents: first, again ashe, take care of you first please


second, testy your initial response was an contradictory. while you are arguing ones right to post you are condemning another person's rights. your second response claims that the person was assuming that the reply was not about them but your wording in your reply would seem to point to them since they were the only poster who mention posting more than once..you then go on to passively, aggressively complain again about the person exercising their right to post by knocking their post. well i ma not one to beat around the bush so ill just come out and say that i think you have an issue with this member that causes you to say things that are mean and inconsiderate. that is just my opinion based on reading your replies and responses to things written on the board over the past month or so. i guess what i am saying it that if you do have a problem would you kindly take it up in privacy? i know that you have a right to respond however you wish in whatever way you want but it would be easier on the rest of us reading this if you would not "passively aggressively" pick people apart on a support site. but if you cannot do this, and i clearly understand that you are allowed to make that choice, then please do not get overly upset if someone that you choose to lash out at decides to defend him or her self. im not trying to bash you or control how things run on ds, it is not my place. but i am asking you to please review your comments and your heart and see if perhaps there is an issue a brewin?