Clinical depression is a state of sadness or melancholia that has advanced to the point of being disruptive to an individual's social functioning and/or activities of daily living....
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anyone have advice on stupid men????
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i feel like crap right now. there's a few reasons why, but one of them keeps bothering me. lets see if anyone has any advice...
i dated this guy about 2 years ago. i broke up with him only because he didnt want anything serious. over the past 6 or so months, he finally took the time to get to know me. even told me he had a little crush on me. so about 2 weeks ago he drives the 2.5 hours to my house to visit for 2 days. we ended up getting drunk and sleeping together. so i havent talked to him for about 2 weeks, since he went back home. why would he spend months talking to me if he was just going to quit talking to me as soon as i slept with him? i get to go home this weekend, and he wont even respond when i text him to ask if he wants to hang out. what the hell??????? Posted on 03/25/08, 11:03 pm |
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sounds pretty typical to me. no surprises.
he had nothing better to do? he has a g/f already? he had time to kill? Some males are just pigs. It's a shame when they make us think otherwise and then reveal themselves after the fact, but that's why people need to be careful...keep your d*ck in your pants.....keep your legs closed. 
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Sounds to me like he got wanted he wanted so he's done.
I think most men like the chase,then when their hooked you you sleep with them,because then it's meaningful to you both. My advice is in the future don't drink or limit yourself to only a couple of drinks.
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i havent gotten laid in a while, but youre right, i should have kept my legs closed.....
for some reason i just actually thought he would want something more than that. i've been telling myself that since high school, but i havent even found one guy who likes me better when i'm sober.
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No matter what is going on in his head he should have the respect and decency to call and discuss what happened with you. I can't tell you what is going on in his head, so I don't know what else to say.
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even if you kept your legs closed he would have left eventually. Its his character that is lacking/
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I set a rule that a guy has to date me, in person, for a month before he gets a chance. And that's IF I want to. There's nothing you can really do to assure that kind of stuff doesn't happen. You can try to earn some respect beforehand and, yes, being sober helps ALOT. But ultimately you have to go out on a limb and trust that person. Sometimes the limb breaks.
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probably. i've had f*ck buddies that paid more attention to me.
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i did trust him.
that is the problem. he spent months before i'd sleep with him again. for some stupid reason i thought he actually liked me for who i am. i'm supid.
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You're not stupid, it just happens sometimes. The stupid thing to do would be to assume all men are like that. You're wiser for the lesson and sometimes lessons hurt like a bitch. But don't be bitter over it less you turn down Mr Right someday because this idiot burned you.
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thanks star! hope he doesnt pass me up! i'm kinda shy in front of people. i know i dont let people get to know me unless they try really hard. i pretty much have to see a very hard effort before i'll do more than small talk.
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