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How does someone deal with the man/woman of their dreams cheating on them?
Let me explain, I have been in a relationship for about a year and a half now well this last summer my boyfriend decided that he wanted to go on a trip to Europe I was okay with the idea really nervous but I dealt with it. He kept telling me how much he loves me and would never do anything to mess our relationship up. Well while he was over there he saw a girl he wanted to sleep with so he lied to her and told her that I had broken up with him made this big old sob story and got in her pants. He didn't tell me until I moved up here with him, not only didn't he tell me when he came home and I asked him that I wouldn't be mad if he just told me the truth about what happened he said that he didn't do anything. I asked him how many times they had screwed and he told me only once then it was twice and I finally think I got the truth he told me that he slept with her three times and they had "dated" while on the trip. I was completely faithful this whole time. Believe me there were times when I wanted to do things but didn't 'cause I knew that it would hurt him. Now he has become abusive, won't talk about anything that has to do with this girl. Tells me that he isn't talking to her even though he is and makes me feel like crap for trying to move past anything that could "hurt" him. I don't know what to do. I have no support system my "friends" never talk to me even though I call them all the time. And I'm the black sheep of my family, I am so hopelessly lost. Please give me some advice.
Thanks Ash
Posted on 12/09/07, 11:12 pm
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Reply #1 - 12/09/07  11:13pm
" kick him to the curb..you deserve better.

Carolyn "
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Reply #2 - 12/09/07  11:15pm
" hang him by the balls. what an asshole "
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Reply #3 - 12/09/07  11:16pm
" your better than him leave him "
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Reply #4 - 12/09/07  11:18pm
" I have to agree with the others. Ditch him. He does it once, he will most likely do it again and you don't deserve to be treated like that. Love = faithful and if not, maybe it's not really love. JMHO.

~R~ "
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Reply #5 - 12/09/07  11:21pm
" leave him, definitely! Punch the punching bag thinkign it's him. Kick the ground thinking it's him, get all your anger out. I'd be so pissed if I was you too. Scream, yell, tell him you are not staying with him eventhough you loved him because you love yourself a lot more than you love him. After you are done doing all that, give him the importance he deserves ... NONE. "
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Reply #6 - 12/09/07  11:21pm
" If you let him get away with it once, he'll do it again. Especially since he's abusive to you now...you've got to remove yourself from this relationship. "
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