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i recently ended a marriage and my best friend and i have feelings for one another she is still in her marriage with an eleven year old child. how do we handle this situation of custody. any advice would be helpful.
Posted on 08/10/08, 01:08 pm
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Reply #1 - 08/10/08  4:57pm
" get a lawyer? "
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Reply #2 - 08/10/08  5:26pm
" custody..? umm the kid is still hers and her father, even if u manage to break em up, theres the chance th father would fight for custody

i mean if u care about the kid at all, im just giving the heads up

it shouldnt concern tough, the kid´s future shouldnt be decied by an outside source anyways "
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Reply #3 - 08/10/08  9:38pm
" Hi there Pudge,

Well first off I'll start by saying this is completely the wrong group for this type of advice, but I'll help as best I can anyway.

When it comes to children the parents have to think about the feelings of the children and how they will be affected. Wether the person that you have feelings for brings the child with them or not, it's up to you and that person to constantly support the child and let them know they will always have people in their life that cares about them. Then be sure to mention that it's not the child's fault. In the end a divorce is never the answer. I hope that things work out for you well and if you need any more assistants please contact me, I'll try my best. :D

-Romeo
"M&M Founder" "
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