A "codependent" is loosely defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for other people's struggles.
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Venting...Please Advise!
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Okay, so it's been almost 2.5 months since I left my bf and he wanted to be friends. I told him that wasn't a good idea, yet he continued to text me about every week.
Well, last night I get a text from him and I don't answer it. Then I get another text from him saying I need to check my myspace. So stupidly, I go on and find out he's seeing someone else.... Apparently, this chick is from Bulgaria and is 22 years old (note: his is 36 ys old) and I'm pissed because I realize the name matches the text I found in his found in his phone while we were seeing each other. So I feel betrayed and even more used and pissed because of this. It's like why even be a good person and do the right things when people like him fuck around and get no consequences? I don't know why I'm so upset over this, but alas, I am. Please tell me what to do... Posted on 10/06/08, 07:10 pm |
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you have every right to be upset its only been a short time sense up broke up at least you got to vent and you know what kind of man he really is maybe change your myspace page or make were he cant get on it just keep busy he will probaly do the same to her lol 
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Some how,in some way,you may not even know it,but he WILL get what's coming...whether it be an STD,getting someone pregnant while playing around...
I think back to a friend of my husband's. He was a player in every sense of the word. Well,today he is partially bald,with a beer gut,and now has no money,and no one that wants anything to do with him. Women aren't charmed by him trying to charm...it's sad really. You should feel betrayed. Here he is flaunting his relationship,and pretty much never took your relationship serious if he was seeing her while with you. I'd just let his sorry loser ass go and move on...he's not worth getting angry over let alone being friends with!! Hugs,
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I understand where you are coming from- my wife has moved out recently "to get her shit together" she was gone 2 days when I found out she had been having "texting" affairs, and trading erotic pics & videos over the cell phone. She talks of reconcilliation & keeps saying that she eventually wants to come home, but she continues to carry on electronicaly with these other men. I had great hopes for a joyful reunion, but now I just feel like I'm being treated like a bitch.
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I don't either. I think you should view this as a confirmation you did the right thing in breaking it off. It should validate for you that your instincts are good.
Its a good thing.
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