A "codependent" is loosely defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for other people's struggles.
Codependency advocates claim a codependent ...
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Email seems to bring trouble
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a caretaker of parents -they died
said she thought I should not send anything or talk much to family-some emails from relatives are too much-get help,get a guy-I told one person that- mean ones,etc.I think I will put it on Auto-reply What do others think? Posted on 08/17/08, 08:08 am |
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The "auto-reply" is nicer then no reply.
But I say give a real reply to all family or friend emails. Some in my family will only say mean things too so I reply as nice as I can. When I tell them off then they stop writing like a rat crawling back into their hole. So if you take their mean stuff without giving an out of control emotional reaction then you being nice to them is like the cheese in the rat trap that catches them. The parents dying is a big deal. 
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Thanks-Ithey are hurtful
I female was send emails- I was told it was harrassment,and so she finally was told to start. COusins saying you need all the help you can get- I told one person about bully boss and it is over over in emails and question i like to talk on the phone
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