A "codependent" is loosely defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for other people's struggles.
Codependency advocates claim a codependent ...
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My main family does not support me and It is
hard because mother died and she was best freind I have aunts who call- I feel like my siblings and families who have taken so much from me make it look like it is me causing trouble, thet get along with aunts and cousins and sepend time with them all. I feel like not sending cards or anything to any relative. They my main family won't find out a thing about me Posted on 08/11/08, 07:08 pm |
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I can relate to your story a bit, after my mother passed away all i wanted was to be close to my siblings since that was all i had left. Well it didnt work out that way not until I took charge for the things I did to make my family and friends not want to be around me. Not sure if you have a CODA group around where you live but if you would like the link let me know. It helped me along with counseling. All we can do is be responsible for our part in it. Good luck I hope this helps a little 
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I called family today -just to say hello my parents would want it that way I could be carrying old stuff too far and maybe let up a little
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