A "codependent" is loosely defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for other people's struggles.
Codependency advocates claim a codependent ...
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i have started dating an ex of mine our first relationship was fantastic till he moved to Turkey then cheated on me, now he is back for summer he told me openly that he likes a girl who i think is ten times prettier than me though he chose me over her.
he is known for being a player but i think that i can change his ways but recently he has being acting as though i am non existant and i have a feeling he may be cheating on me again.... should i break up with him.... Help!!! Posted on 07/06/08, 07:07 am |
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"but i think that i can change his ways"
I tried to change men. I tried for many years in my misperceptions. I got screwed over so many times. I finally found after many years of suffering, I can only change myself. Why would I want a man I can't trust, and would hurt me? I'm too busy observing and working on the CHANGE, my Higher Power has given to me. I don't give myself that much credit any longer. I can only work on the Change in my perceptions. Which, most of my life have been confused and wrong and I've needed to eschew! (only my opinion of myself) Thanks for your POST it reminds me of why I'm here. 
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thank you very much for your help i found it motivating and i never thought of it that way :D
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honey all i can say is if you were here i would hug you. the obvious answer is yes but since i am in your same situation almost i can at least empathize. however, the answer is yes.
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When I read your post I immediately think "YES you should leave him!" - b/c it reminds me of me, thinking I could change my husband. As was said previously, we can only change ourselves, and that can start with truly believing that you deserve better. ((Hugs))
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thank you all you are soooo helpful and so kind
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