What is Cocaine Addiction

Cocaine addiction is the excessive intake of cocaine, and can result in physiological damage, lethargy, depression, or a potentially fatal overdose. Though the immediate craving to...

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I been with my bf for about a year and a half now and when i 1st met him he was doing alot of coke but calmed down alot and cut down alot we still do it nearly every weekend. I can go with out doing it and if i do I can just only do a few lines but he goes over the top.

The other day he went out stayed up all night doing coke carried on for 2days didnt talk to me or ring me at all..Do you think this is cos he knows what i will say to him?

Now he is saying sorry and he needs help..I always know when its going to happen cos he will be moody and angry for a few weeks then he will go out and do this maybe its his way of dealing with things?

I want to help him..But i dont know if im strong enough to..ive got my own problems..

What can i do to help him..P?art of me wants to leave him..But i love him and want to see him happy..
Posted on 09/03/08, 09:09 am
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Reply #1 - 09/03/08  12:40pm
" this is a tough desicion and you got to decide no one can say what is right or wrong in this situation, but im guessing its gonna be tough either way, my friend was in a similar situation a couple of years ago she wasnt treated how she should have been treated but she loved him and stuck by him, but everyone has their limits he went low so she had no choice but to end it coz she has kids, maybe know what your limits are and do what is right for you. gd luck hugs xxxxxxxxx "
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Reply #2 - 09/03/08  11:10pm
" Help him find a treatment center. He does need help, but you are right in knowing you can't be his only help. "
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Reply #3 - 09/04/08  9:44am
" See if he would consider a meeting. There is a problem brewing there and you don't want to see it get more out of hand. One way of helping w/ helping is seeing he gets a sponsor so someone else can take on that role of sounding board. And your main role will be support and helping him maintain a sober lifestyle. "
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Reply #4 - 09/10/08  8:46am
" Yes, direct him to some help if he truly wants it, but something tells me that it isn't going to stop anytime soon. Like anyone else in life, he needs a way to escape life, and that is how he does it.....life becomes the excuse to use, and binge. Do what you can for yourself first.....or precious time can be wasted. Back him up when he does help himself...but that is the key words...help's himself.....be strong, and he will want to follow. "
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