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I am new to this and would like some advice from both males and females. I was involved with someone for over 3 years. It started off kinda slow but then escalated. He went on family trips together and welcomed each other into our families. We never spoke the "L" word but he always told me actions speak louder than words I agree I went by his actions and they told me that I was a very special person to him and he truly cared about me I had a very rough year and he was there for me through it all I thought I found my soul mate so did the kids The unthinkable happened and he told me that he did not want to be in a relationship any longer. I was devastated As I was leaving, he asked if he could call me and I asked if I could have one last hug He told me that it would not be our last His roommate called me on Thanksgiving to see how I was doing and told me that he said he thinks he may have screwed up I don't know why they said these things to me because I found out he is seeing someone else He is even taking this person to meet his family out of town over the holidays I have heard some awful things about this person that are so out of character of the man that I knew I feel like I have been used for over 3 years and I meant nothing to him I want to know how someone that is so good hearted can do that to someone that he knew was in love with him. I was told that he said that I was a very wonderful person Could he really be in love with the new person? Please help me get all of this out of mind and get on with my life I am tired of thinking about it and trying to analyze it I do want answers but I know that I will never get them
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my dear, this is a hard road you are in. You only have control over your feeings and actions. YOu cannot control or have any influence on his. YOu are not alone and others have gone through the same and learn to cope and, if necessary, to rebuild. I hope you find some solace this holidays and regain strength for the new year. 
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Ya know?????
I really needed to read that - it means alot Thanks for being a sympathetic and itelligent writter/Person Martha
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God bless you! I feel ur pain. It will get better. I know u are probably tired of hearing that but it does. The holidays are really hard but somehow we get through...
Hold onto the goodness, those beautiful children! Cherish every moment you have with them, they grow so fast. Ask them for that hug, everyday! You are very much loved! Merry Christmas! Much love, ~Sal
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I don't have much advise but I do want you to know that I feel your pain.Recently, the day after Christmas, my girlfriend left me.After always telling me how much she loved me, care dofr me and that she would never hurt me,she just up and left, leaving me a note saying she could no longer be with me, she wants to be alone.I know what you are going through.This too is all new to me.I was searching the internet for some kind of help and I found this site.I hope it works out for you.May the new year be a much better one for you.
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