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is it ok to beg?
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for the last 2 months i have begged my wife to give our marrage a shot,,She wont even give me the time of day,,i think if i was dieing in the streets she would laugh at me..she wont even take 5 mins out of her day to talk about our marrage..on the other hand,,im willing to put 110% into our marrage becasue i took vows,,infront of god.. the RIGHT thing to do is always work on your marrage..i know my wife is with another man..and believe it or not,,that dosent bother me,,if he can make her smile,,thats all that matters,,its out of my hands..the part that bothers me is,,my wife throws fits if i go on movies dates or talk on the phone with other women,,my wife told me that she was threw with me on august 10th,,,,but on august 8th she told me she loved me,,i have begged for 2 months,,,what should i do,,im loanly,, and if i sit home,,all i do is think..if i go out,,,im in fear that my wife will see me with someone,,and the look on her face almost kills me,,,becasue i dont want her to feel bad..am i wasteing my time begging???i feel like a fool..should i give her more time???? should i try new things with new females??? or should i go in the woods and try to find a old bear den,,so i can hibernate until the second comming of christ??? any ideas????
Posted on 09/01/08, 04:09 pm |
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Rod, you're wife is probably still upset about your affair, or emotional affair you had. If you were so begging your wife but then dating others, I don't think I'd want you back either. Someone who is true to their words would not go out and date other woman. Just my thoughts... I wouldn't really want to give it a whirl either if you were my husband.
I do wish you luck though...
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IMO you should never beg... it will push her further away!
I do have a question though. What kind of marriage do you two have if you both seem to think that dating others is ok? Just curious, cause in my opinion it is never ok to date others when you are committed to someone, even if you are not married! Good luck!
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LOL, Your funny. Plain and simple, DON'T BEG!GO OUT WITH OTHER WOMEN and have fun and look after YOURSELF ..... DON'T HIDE IN THE BEAR DEN, it's no fun!
MK
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didn't you post something some time ago about seeing another woman?
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my wife is with another man,,,1 who just turned 20 years old and lives at home with momma,,she has been seen to bars,,,out to partys..and just spent labour day weekend with him,,,i didnt have no afair,,i have what women like to call,,A FRIEND,,,someone to bitch 2 when my wife wouldnt listen...now i want to work on my marrage..and she dosent,,,eather whos right or wrong,,is my begging going to get me nowhere????ONLY in 2008 can a woman have 37 male friends,,,,but if a man has a female friend,,,ITS HORRID,,friends are friends,,,intentions to sleep with the friend is another thing,,,intentions i never had...
so let me get this straight,,it was wrong for me to have a female friend who i talked to,,,so for payback for that,,its ok for my wife to sleep with another man for 2 months???? thats fair right????
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Courier yes he did... he also said he had an affair with another woman... I remember his story well....
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Only if you're a dog; bit even then don't be surprised if you get smacked on the nose with a rolled up newspaper.
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Oh I forgot the anger outbursts... YES Rod, it's NOT Okay for you to have woman that you fall in love with. It's not OK for you to take long romantic walks down the beach with.
You can't pick and choose when you want to be married. You are either married 100% of the time or you're not. Again, I do wish you luck.
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Yes, but you stated before that you did sleep with a girl because your wife would never have sex with you. Was that a false statement?
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