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I need to vent- I haven't talked to or seen the guy I was dating for over a month now. July 4th I got some nasty texts from what I thought was his girlfriend. Come to find out last night, he sent me those texts and told his niece (in front of his girlfriend) that I had been calling, texting, driving by the house constantly and would not leave him alone so he had to tell me to stay away. I NEVER DID THAT!!!! I drove by the house occasionally but it's on a major thoroughfare in town!!! Using that street to get where I was going and driving by his house was unavoidable without going out of my way!!! HE WAS CALLING AND TEXTING ME!!!! HE CAME TO SEE ME THE SATURDAY BEFORE THE 4TH OF JULY!!! Who was stalking who?
I aslo found out that he is doing drugs again like he did in high school. I'm hurt, scared, confused all at the same time. I have been keeping my distance from him, her and his family and friends. His niece called me to tell me all of this last night. She thought that I needed to know. I DID need to know to see what a truly evil person he has become and to quit pining for him. Truth hurts right?! Well, this really hurts but I hope to become stronger out of it. I will continue to stay away from him and avoid him like the plague. If I know he will be somewhere, I'll stay away since he will call me out as a stalker even if I was there first!! He is unstable and scares me what he might do. How can I still love him though? Gee, all of this after a GREAT counseling session yesterday. I'm getting stronger but things pull me backwards at times. Any advise or words of wisdom and support? Thanks in advance! Posted on 08/01/08, 02:08 pm |
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I had something of that nature happen to me recently and it was untrue.I thought about it for a day and wrote in my journal about it.After one day of mulling it over I decided it wasn't worth the pain the person was trying to inflict on me.I know the trueth and that is all that matters.It shows that there are hurtful,angry ppl out there just waiting to spew their venom wherever they can.I just chalk it up to ignorance and have moved on to a better place.Don't let them win by accepting a lie...In other words just ignore them and that will take the fuel away that is needed to indulge their behavior.Just continue on your own healing.If someone feels they need to fill you in on "info"...tell them you have moved on and you aren't interested! Best of luck to ya((((hugs))) 
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been there done that..i got a horrible voicemail the saturday of easter weekend..of course i didnt answer the phone..but it was telling me that i was sending txt mssgs emailing and calling him with crazy threats and we were not getting back together..of course i hadnt even contacted him so figured it was all a show for the whore!!
that was my lightbulb moment that i was done!
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