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What i accomplished without him
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Okay, i still feel like shit but i wanted to tell myself and the rest of the world about what i accomplished so far since he left me. I had this feeling recently that i did nothing since he left since i spend most of my time alone and i have been off work for a month since my surgery. But... i realized that i DID DO SOME THINGS since he dumped me. Here's my list:
- Went to a spa for the first time ever - Visited NYC for the first time - Got a new job (managed to go to an interview and actually got it even if i felt like dying) - Got through my first surgery - Reconciled with my mother, father and sister - Starting my driving lessons in 2 weeks (this is something i wanted to do for the last 12 years or so) - Started a therapy with a new therapist even if i was scared to change - Took the decision to join an improv team in september (have been missing that for a while and i will try it now... this used to be my passion) There! In your face EX!!!! Now... I DID THIS. ME. ALONE. I DID THIS WITHOUT HIM. Even when feeling like i was dead (still do), i managed to do these things. Some little, some big. Doesn't matter, that shows me that i must still be alive... Because how can a dead person do all these things??? What about you? What have you done since the ex left? Posted on 07/04/08, 08:07 pm |
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damn. you have been a busy little beaver! all i did was start working out. i havent changed the world or anything. shit. i guess i better get on the ball...lol 
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You did the one thing that i need to do the most!!!!!!!! LOL. I need to join the gym and start getting this bad energy out and loose weight!
You did something very important, don't put yourself down!!!!
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{{{{{{{{mel}}}}}}}}
Now thats the spirit hon! You need to keep that list on the fridge and remind yourself of it often.. or keep it by the phone :) Glad to hear a little more Mel spirit in that voice
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wow. not putting myself down. just standing in awe...in your shadow...
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TLK you change our world everyday
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YOU are very alive Mel...and soon to be alive and well. Great accomplishments and hope that you continue on... Hugs, M
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Wow, Mel! That's quite a list! You should be really proud.
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Mel, that is one amazing list. I'm especially impressed at the "got a new job" even while you were feeling so awful. That is the one I am facing and thinking I can't do it because I can't sell myself now.
I knew you were an amazing person!
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Mel, come over and join us at the July 4th pity party thread... everyone there is in terrible shape, maybe you can help control some of the mom's when they get out of hand..LOL
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Mel....
That is so amazing! Keep it up girl!
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