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This consumes me! My day was terrible. I even feel physical pain. My legs, back and neck ache from the tension. I cant stop thinking about him. A part of me says "he will come back" and then another part of me say, "wake up girl, you should have seen the signs months ago that he didnt love you."
This was suppose to be THE ONE. he really was. Why does this happen to me damn it??!!! I just want a normal life. I just want someone to love me back. sorry for whining.. i just had to push myself through the day today. thanks for listening p.s 1 week today since I last spoke to him. Posted on 05/27/08, 07:05 pm |
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If you need to vent this is the place to do it. You need to keep busy and think about moving forward. 
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So sorry that you had such a bad day. I pray that tomorrow will be better. I wish that there was some magical cure to all this heartache. But it takes time. Just focus on taking care of yourself and your needs right now. Be thankful for all that you do have and the people in your life that do love you. I was a dental assistant back in the day, so I can imagine that your job can be very stressful, especially going through something like this. Just hang in there and talk to us. There are some here that are further along in this healing process and they have wonderful advice.
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There is no normal life, there's just life. Don't be too hard on yourself by wishing you could have seen the signs. Unless we treated our relationships clinical and cold, we never really see the signs.
As much as we don't want to think about our exes, we can't stop even when we get over them. Thank God that you made it through the day and ask for the strength to make it through tomorrow. And lastly, you're not whining, jus sharing pain. Your post is really down to earth and honest so let that stay. Our minds will play those little tricks on us but it's not just our minds, it's our hearts as well. People can rip your life to shreds in the blink of an eye but the power that we have can sew them back together and life will be more stable and our hearts more stronger than they ever were. Just take the baby steps and know that when the door to happiness opens again, walk through with your dignity, integrity, and mostly your heart. It'll go away but try not to force it to, just let it come on is own.
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Jen, you need to give yourself a little slack. You DID push yourself through the day. Some days that is all we can do. I didn't read your whole profile yet, but it seems your being very hard on yourself. Allow yourself some greiving time. Have a cup of tea and a hot bath to ease the muscle, read a book that will distract your mind. I so feel your pain, I still feel it a few times a week, but it is getting easier. And will for you too.
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