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Divorce or dissolution of marriage is the ending of a marriage before the death of either spouse. The main causes of divorce in 2004, according to a recent study, were extra-marita...

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Let's just say Your stbx takes you back.What is gonna change in the relationship?Is there trust to hold you together? Every time he/she walks out the door for work or an errand...will you be wondering where or what they are doing? Are you willing to put up with them coming home drunk? How bout the walking on eggshells so you don't say or do something to "set them off" and get a fist in your face? Oh yes...name calling and blaming? How bout sitting there on the weekends getting ignored when you'd like some help or good conversation with someone above the age of 3?
Honestly...how many of you think your stbx or exs has changed since they/you left? Highly unlikely.Think of the ramifications of going back.I for one don't want to go back....no matter how lonely...or tough it is out here on my own.It's still better than what's back there!!!
Posted on 05/16/08, 09:05 pm
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Reply #21 - 05/16/08  10:40pm
" but i want to b held! "
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Reply #22 - 05/16/08  10:43pm
" MS...You will have that one day...by the right person.Don't settle for second best when you can have the best. I understand the need for human touch....but only if they are worthy :) "
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Reply #23 - 05/16/08  10:52pm
" deb is nancy - she gets it..deb, yep fine just when i slammed that dam door it hit me in the ass "
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Reply #24 - 05/16/08  10:55pm
" ooo..O yeah...I got it now...forgot about that.
When I met msde she thought I would look like Nancy Grace lol(not) "
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Reply #25 - 05/16/08  10:59pm
" and you were suppose to have a southern accent "
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Reply #26 - 05/16/08  11:01pm
" Where is the throw up smiley when you need it? Kimmee "
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Reply #27 - 05/16/08  11:10pm
" I dream how it can be, but then I remember what brought us to the breaking point. Hum... "
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Reply #28 - 05/16/08  11:31pm
" I could never accept back a person I don't trust or respect anymore. "
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Reply #29 - 05/16/08  11:44pm
" I'm changing my mind. There is one way I would take him back. If I found out I had 24 hours to live, I'd take him back so he would have to bury me and pay for it. LOL "
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Reply #30 - 05/16/08  11:49pm
" I sure hope all of those people who feel otherwise are reading. Because I know for a fact not everyone is saying 'amen" to this. "
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