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I had a consultation with a solicitor today, after my ex has been making threats about taking my baby if I do my degree, and even if that doesn't happen, he wants him every weekend from birth. The solicitor said no court will allow this, espeically as I am breastfeeding. Now it is just a case of me putting my foot down and telling him no- if he wants to contest it and go to court, he can, but the solicitor said it probably wouldn't even make it to court because it's so ridiculous. Just hard saying no to him because I still love him. But I need to do what is right for my baby! I'm so relieved he doesn't have a leg to stand on! I can relax now.
Posted on 05/16/08, 12:05 pm
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Reply #1 - 05/16/08  12:21pm
" i am so happy for you. talking to a solicitor was a good decision. all the best. "
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Reply #2 - 05/16/08  12:28pm
" Great news. "
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Reply #3 - 05/16/08  12:35pm
" I just knew this was the case. Great news indeed! You move forward for you and your little George. Big day is coming soon...sending prayers for a safe and happy delivery! "
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Reply #4 - 05/16/08  12:51pm
" That's great news! "
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Reply #5 - 05/16/08  1:21pm
" if you google visitation it shows the limited schedule a baby has..much less an infant. he is freakin nuts to even say that.. "
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Reply #6 - 05/16/08  1:23pm
" That is great news! When you have a hard time saying 'no' to him, remind yourself how much he has hurt you and how selfish he is being about your son. (((((HUG))))! "
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Reply #7 - 05/16/08  1:56pm
" Always good to find out the legal facts before getting into it with the dad. "
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Reply #8 - 05/16/08  2:49pm
" Oh, great news, Amy!! Get that degree, for yourself and your baby. "
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Reply #9 - 05/16/08  3:22pm
" so glad for you and so proud for getting legal advice! good job! "
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Reply #10 - 05/16/08  6:37pm
" so they told you the same thing we all said. trust us sometimes. you take the hurt he dished out to you and you fall for it everytime. Tell that joker to kiss your pregnant ass and to go to Hell. You have spent your entire pregnancy "in love" with someone who has shown such disrespect to you. Get mad and realize you deserve better ; exchange all of that "love" for anger towards this joker. "
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