Divorce or dissolution of marriage is the ending of a marriage before the death of either spouse. The main causes of divorce in 2004, according to a recent study, were extra-marita...
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ok so he left...
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and i'm the bitch???
he said that to me. that since he's left i've been nothing but a bitch, and he had no idea i could be this mean. DUH what the hell does he expect me to do? smile and say thank you? be happy that he treats my kids with indifference? encourage him? give him support? Oh that's right... I forgot. Life is all about HIM. silly me. what was i thinking? Posted on 05/10/08, 11:05 am |
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I feel your pain. Mine wants his space so he can clear his head. I want to give that to him, but the human side of me wants to let him know he's being selfish. I'm beginning to agree with many of the posts I've read here about the NO CONTACT thing. It makes it easier to not be so mean or reactive to the situation. 
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Mine is the same; I think sometimes he thinks we're all just supposed to hold hands, sit in a circle, and sing "Kumbyah." You're right--it's all about them.
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That's a typical response. Any sign of emotion on our part .........................
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yeah i really have alot of healing to do still. i know that.
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I'm in the same boat - he doesn't get why he can't still give me hugs and why we can't hang out with the kids - uh, maybe because you're screwing a 26 yr old???
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(((hugs))) Koma,I got it.Unfortunately I left after 24 years of major abuse and he is pissed that I left and still trying to get back at me cuz he doesn't have anyone else to abuse.
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If we didn't have a teenaged son, it would have been easier to have no contact during the initial separation......went through 3-4 months of arguing EVERY time we spoke. I really TRY not to contact him though.....tired of being hurt.
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Kids definitely make things tougher. But detachment is definitely a needed step towards recovery from a break up. It's hard, painful, and scary. But the alternative is being miserable in a relationhsip that is dead.
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no i've come to terms with the fact that the relationship is dead. what i can't come to terms with is the fact that he'd rather be spending time fixing up his new love shack instead of seeing the kids. and when i get angry about it, he says i'm just being a bitch.
he wants me to give him time to get his life in order before he sees them on a regular basis. (translates to he wants free party time without responsibility) i just get angry cuz i see my kids hurting. (translates to me being a vile bitch)
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Get this one, my ex didn't want to take the grill when we got divorced but yesterday he called and want to come out and take it cause he want to make room the for new one to impress his new love and her family when they coming on Thursday. I told him to shove it, I don't want his charity now.
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