Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Did you beg your cheating crackhead husband to come back and cry for months? Ok if not I win the once was a dumba## award for the year.

Aw, sassy! (((HUGS)))
Don't beat yourself up because you texted him. We all have our weak moments. But now that you realize that he's playing games, don't text him anymore!! You're not a dumbass... you're human and we all have moments when we miss the stbx. When you feel like contacting him, get on DS and start posting like mad!
Remember, you are NOT a dumbass!

You're not a dumbass, you just had a weak moment. Trust me, I'm sure there's not a one of us here that haven't! Just renew your resolve, and don't give him the satisfaction of caving; you can do it!

Don't sweat it too much. I don't know if you read JacJac's post earlier. We officially have permission to f&^k up because we're human. Try not to beat yourself up about it.

Nope, you're no dumb ass.....just a human being like the rest of us. I begged and pleaded with my man-whore ex husband for 6 months not to do what he did. I felt pretty pathetic and ashamed actually......UNTIL I found DS and realized I wasn't alone and many people have felt that way.

We all have our moments.......just learn from it and keep moving forward. You can do this.

Hugs to you!

the only dumbass is him!!!!! he's the one that fucked up!

I am a MUCH BIGGER dumba** than you...I called my H on a Friday night knowing full well he is out in a bar with another woman. I must just love the pain as he says I do.

There only mistakes if we don't learn from them. Just try harder next time.

Well you will probably have to compete with me for the TOP Spot on the Dumbass list! I tell myself "today will be the day I will not send him a text" and 20 minutes into my morning drive, I'm texting him. I get the same mind games you speak of or then later on he will say, "oh, I didn't see your text until now." The guy sleeps with his phone, I don't for one second believe that he didn't see my text message. Oh well, tomorrow is another day and another pledge not to text him. We'll try harder tomorrow!

Your not a dumbass lovey, hello I just had dinner with mine and a whole Sat. wrapped around with him. You can't control how you feel, the strength will come... I don't know win, cause I ain't got it yet.. :( But from what I heard it does come... YOU can't control who you love. Your not a dumbass and neither are you solong!