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Today, i woke up with this "I miss my husband" feeling. Common sense would tell me to leave it alone but my heart aches. I went to work and all I could think about is I wish I could see him. Is that his foot steps I hear in the hall? Is he thinking about me? Why did he send that I still love you text? So after work I sent him a text asking why he sent that the other night. He quickly responded "cause I still do". I wrote back. we are getting a divorce. That kind of stuff hurts. He replied with ok, just forget about it. Im sorry. Why doesnt he just come to me? I want to text him back so bad or email him and tell him I love him too, but would that be helpful or harmful? I dont know whats best for me right now. I really dont. Help.
Posted on 05/09/08, 04:05 pm
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Reply #1 - 05/09/08  4:59pm
" Bare with me a bit on this one...

There are urban legends in big cities like New York that full-size alligators and/or crocodiles live in the sewer systems. They got there because people who weren't supposed to have them in their apartments got caught and flushed the baby critters down the toiley.

This also explains how the ooze got there that made those turtles into teenage mutant turtles, but that's besides the point...

The point is, you're sending your emotions somewhere they don't belong, to someone who obviously does not appreciate them. "
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Reply #2 - 05/09/08  5:03pm
" You know sassy.. I've had the same thing. I got flowers Sunday with the I love you still but you know what at the end of the day, aren't they dating someone else? So.. with that being said, I'm not opening any more cans of worms... Do I love him, yes.. but it will hurt too bad to hear the I don't want to be with you... Hugs lady! "
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Reply #3 - 05/09/08  5:43pm
" Maybe his relationship with the ow went south and he's trying to get back into your life. Watch out. I know how you feel. Whenever I see my husband I want to hug and kiss him and when we talk on the phone, I have to stop myself from saying "I love you" at the end of the call (which I always did when we were together). It's hard but I wouldn't text him back. "
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Reply #4 - 05/09/08  5:54pm
" Of course you love him, but if he's not good for you, you have to allow it to die a normal death. If he didn't cheat on you or abuse you maybe you have a heart to heart to air your feelings and decide once and for all if you want to work on it or let it die. "
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