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Has anyone ever canceled a wedding?
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I am considering doing so and I am scared to death! Has anyone done this? Considered doing so but changed your mind? I am so embarrassed and terrified that everyone will hate me!
Posted on 05/05/08, 08:05 pm
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Reply #1 - 05/05/08  8:57pm
" better to do it now and feel embarrased than enter into a marriage you are having second thoughts of now.... "
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Reply #2 - 05/05/08  8:59pm
" Why are you thinking of cancelling it? If you're having second doubts because you don't think you love him? If so, then don't do it. You'll be better off in the long run. "
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Reply #3 - 05/05/08  8:59pm
" i can honestly say that the day I got married to my 2nd hubby..my mom said.. u don't have to do this! but I did do it! that was 2 years ago.. now we are getting divorced!

hun, if ur having doubts, then u need to seriously think about what YOU want! don't worry about what they think!! better to find out now! then later! "
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Reply #4 - 05/05/08  8:59pm
" You just scared to get married or do not want to be with the person you are marrying? "
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Reply #5 - 05/05/08  9:01pm
" You know I considered cancelling before I married the STBX. Wish I had cancelled now. If it doesn't feel right, then don't do it. Your instincts are telling you something. Follow your heart. "
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Reply #6 - 05/05/08  9:03pm
" oh sweetie! I just read ur journal!

you have to END this! cancel before its too late!

hes definitely NOT the right guy for you!!!! "
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Reply #7 - 05/05/08  9:04pm
" Thanks everyone! This was my first post so I was not sure how fast this would happen. I did not give more details because I just wrote a very long journal entry about this situation. "
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Reply #8 - 05/05/08  9:05pm
" please do NOT get married because you are afraid of other people hating you. for sure some people will talk about it--i wouldn't now, but probably would have earlier in my life. but, marriage is a serious committment. people do postpone weddings all the time. take care. really, ask anyone going through a divorce is way worse and plenty of people may hate you then, too. . . "
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Reply #9 - 05/05/08  9:07pm
" This is why I would think that my mother would understand. She has been divorced. My father left before I was born. She has been remarried for most of my life and he adopted me. I have always have a father figure, but I know how painful this was for her. I trust her opinion above any other and she thinks that I should get married. I have never gone against her. "
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Reply #10 - 05/05/08  9:14pm
" TRUST ME...It's cheaper and easier to cancel a wedding t han deal with the aftermath of divroce. "
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