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So I left my stbx a voice mail .... I was hoping he would answer the phone so we could talk and try to sort through and patch up this mess between us and get back to an amicable place. It was also 1 year ago today that we renewed our wedding vows so it's been a hard day.

Anyway, I received a text message back from his g/f telling me to stop contacting him or she'll change his phone #. She pays for his cell phone so I don't doubt she would do that to try to keep some control over my ability to contact him.

She doesn't seem to understand that we have a history together and a child together. I know she is insecure and jealous about those facts, but honestly, what a bitch to act like that. She wants to keep him angry with me because it's reinforcing to her. When he was calling everyday she couldn't stand it.

It just pisses me off that she even thinks it's her business. My dealings with my husband or ex-husband will always be between me and him. If she is insecure with that, then that's her problem. I can't imagine being like that about a man I was dating if he had an ex-wife. That's his business. What a control freak!
Posted on 05/01/08, 09:05 pm
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Reply #1 - 05/01/08  9:13pm
" Amen! "
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Reply #2 - 05/01/08  9:13pm
" OMG! I think your stbx's gf is MY stbx's gf!!! I SO know what you are saying. Read my past journals to see how much I know what you are saying!
BITCHES! "
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Reply #3 - 05/01/08  10:06pm
" OMG. That relationship is doomed to fail. Give it time. He will open his eyes one day. If shes giving you hell imagine what he has to hear. That constant nag will get old. "
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Reply #4 - 05/02/08  9:13am
" Sassy is right - the relationship is doomed (or it should be). Does he know she answers his phone for him???? I would make sure he does... "
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