Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Have you tried couples/marriage counseling, that might be the answer for both of you right now. Hugs

Maybe he would be open to counceling. My wife and I are seperated for three weeks now and I have the kids. We were supposed to start counceling today by she got really sick.

Maybe it is worth a shot for you.

Have either of you, or both seeked counselling for any issues in the marriage or, is he willing to go to counselling to save the marriage? Has this been discussed in any way, shape or form? Sorry for all the questions but, Im not really getting the picture on why he's left, only that he doesn't love you anymore. Is there someone else? At this time, while you and your children are in the safety of your mother's home, and seeing that this is a fairly new separation, you need to stay focussed on your needs and your childrens needs. Again, I do apologize for all the questions but, he sounds very depressed from your post and Im not really getting the picture. Perhaps there are bigger underlying issues that he isn't willing to discuss. Perhaps, if there is any hope for your marriage, offer to go to counselling with him or he seek this on his own. In the meantime, breathe, eat properly and try to get as much rest as you can because these first couple of months are the most difficult. You need to stay strong.

I would offer to attend counseling together. It is the only way to work though your problems. They will only come back if not handled appropraitely.

Thanks for the replies.He didn't leave i left with the kids,because he didn't love me anymore and wanted a divorce.I've tried before for the counciling when we we're having trouble but he wouldn't go.He says alot of our problems is my attitude.Which i have changed but he doesn't know that with us apart like this.