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So today will be my last day I pig out and eat junk food. I also plan to have positive thoughts through out the day. I am gonna take it one day at a time. Its been really hard for me. because I am trying my best, and sometimes I think I am gonna give up, I dont want to give up, so I am try my best or die trying. I keep turning the other cheek in regards with my husband, but the more I am calm the more he an asshole to me. I also plan not to call him for anything too. So my plans are these,,,,Dont call my husband for absolutely nothing unless its nessesary, because we share kids, and lose 40lbs by July 31st and not to dance with my negative thoughts!!!
Posted on 03/10/08, 12:03 pm |
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You go girl! I think you have great plans, and the willpower will come to get them done!!!!! Keep us up to date on your progress. 
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Good luck to you with your new life!! It all sounds so positive .... I am glad to see you take back your life:) Hugs, Kimmee
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Not calling is the best thing. I have learned the longer I go without talking to her, the better I feel.
Keep your head up and keep fighting for your dreams.
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The less communication the better. It's only when I tangle with my stbx that I have major issues. Email is hard enough contact. I should practice the NOT dancing with negative thoughts. We would all be better off.
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I try to cut out negative thoughts as soon as they come up.
My therapist told me: "you have to constantly reinforce yourself with positive thoughts. Say to yourself, I can get through this, its going to be ok." Some days its impossible to overcome the negativity, but there are days I am able to keep the negative thoughts at bay all day long. Those are pretty decent days; all things considered.
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Thanks for all the positive reinforcements!!!
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