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Reply #1 -
02/10/08
1:43pm
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don't take it personally...it may be that you haven't been on in awhile so they were cleaning out their friend list. personally, i've never thought about doing that.
if you need another friend, i'll be your friend and i PROMISE NOT to "un-friend" you :) 
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Reply #2 -
02/10/08
1:43pm
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I think that some people need to do housecleaning every once in awhile. Some people add to add.
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Reply #3 -
02/10/08
1:43pm
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I've noticed a few I THOUGHT were on my friends list no longer. Some I know I've requested a time or two.
It's all voluntary... couldn't stop the stbx from leaving, not gonna worry about removals.
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Reply #4 -
02/10/08
1:44pm
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I think it could be as simple as not having enough time to be a good friend to so many.. I know I work better with smaller numbers and am able to offer support if I don't get overwhelmed with 100 friends.. I like to read the journals, offer support and be there for my friends but I would be online all day long if I had many many friends.. That is one possible solution. I am sure that there are others..
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Reply #5 -
02/10/08
1:48pm
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I just "un-friended" someone for the first time a few minutes ago! (It wasn't you :) She hasn't been on in a long time and is happily married so I figured it was a safe bet she won't be back. I sometimes message all my friends with prayer requests, so I like to keep my list to people I keep in touch with.
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Reply #6 -
02/10/08
1:52pm
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My x was getting into my journals, it was obvious by comments he made to me so I unfriended those I wasn't sure of. I still have a feeling he is doing the same thing so If it is something really important I just privately message those I communicate with on a regular basis.
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Reply #7 -
02/10/08
1:56pm
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I guess you guys are right. It is hard to keep up with more than a few people daily ... the thing is, it took me a while to even figure out who it was! Clearly, I don't have enough to do. ;-)
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Reply #8 -
02/10/08
2:40pm
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I have unfriended some people, because I felt that my X could be snooping and was afraid and unsure. It didn't have anything to do with the people themselves, I tried to pick people who either hadn't been on in a long time, or with whom I never seem to message. I would have liked to pare down my list a lot more, but I didn't want to hurt anyone's feelings. It was only because I needed to feel safe to journal my worries without having such a large audience.
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Reply #9 -
02/10/08
2:48pm
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I have been "unfriended" and have done the "unfriending" due to a website glitch (I didn't do it and neither did my friend). It may have been done in error. You could always just ask!
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Reply #10 -
02/10/08
2:50pm
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that's true, you can easily hit Remove Friend when trying to click Send Message or Give Hug.. I had that happen, and there's no confirmation
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