Divorce or dissolution of marriage is the ending of a marriage before the death of either spouse. The main causes of divorce in 2004, according to a recent study, were extra-marita...
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You left your family You have devastated your kids You left me with all the memories of our time together You left me wondering what I'm going to do with my life without you You only call or see your kids when it is convenient for you and your new life You left me wondering how I'm going to take care of selling our home and belongings by myself You have me questioning the last few years of what I thought were happy times (apparently you were thinking of someone else) You left me with too much debt You left me doubting myself You made me feel paranoid about what you were doing when not with me You threw away your life as though the last 23 years meant nothing to you You didn't appreciate all I did for you and that I was always there for you You don't care that I still love you Posted on 01/22/08, 08:01 pm |
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wow you took the words right out of my mouth 
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thank you. this is how i am feeling so much today. thank you, thank you
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No it is not OK,, but you will be! You are a strong person and will survive this and be a better person for it,, you all will!
Hugs to all of you!
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Exactly how I feel too...
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Giant hugs
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My thoughts exactly..except the part about me still loving him. I think he is an ass.
Hugs :)
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Yep... close enough, and that was near 2 years ago now. We were going on 24 yrs too. I paid off all her debt and it's still not over. Still going to cost me half my money and no benefit
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That is exceedingly well put. Pretty much sums up how I feel.
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You're right it's not okay. These are questions you will probably never get answers to--especially if you are expecting them from him. For if he acknowledged those questions and answers them then he would have to take responsibility for his actions. It is obvious you are the hurting. I hate that any of us have to go through this type of anguish. It isn't fair, it's life. If we never took chances we would miss out on great joy as well as great pain. You have your children--they will be a blessing to you. Just hang in there. I would also make sure there is a schedule of when he can pick them up. If he is not there on time. Then leave a note and you and your kids go to the mall or a movie. Let him know you are not accomodating his lackadazial (sp) attitude. He either is there in a timely manner or he is not going to get the kids. Make sure he understands that---you may have to talk real sllooowwww.
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So well said.
I would like to add, that you have humiliated your children. I no longer love him but the rest is true.
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Just wondering...how many left your spouse for financial reasons?
.... the most if you left your life as you know it now to pursue a new one?
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