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Hi,
Me and my gf have just broken up. She finished with me because she's had enough of my paranoia. I can't get her to change her mind and I can't believe it's over. I can't accept it!! I can't live without her and I can't stop crying!! I can't eat or move out of bed. I can't do anything anymore. It's all my fault. Somebody please help me! *I posted this in the wrong section, so sorry it appears in the advice section and here* Posted on 01/21/08, 09:01 pm |
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zoot - What the hell difference does THAT make??!! 
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I wouldnt want to mis lead her. I only reply to what I know. How could I do otherwise?
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You don't understand the pain of a relationship ending?
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I sure do. Is it the same for gay? Hell if I know.
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Why would it be different?
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Cause sex is different. It isnt natural to me. do they even kiss and hug? I dont know what gay does. How could I know? They may as well be from a different planet. Or are you going to educate me now? Which I dont want to be. But if you know, and you say its the same, maybe I can come up with some kind of helpful advice.
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You have to hang in there. Lean on any friends you can and try to realize it WILL get better. Plus, it isn't all of your fault. You can't accept that - you are a worthwhile person who will find worth and value in this life.
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Well, you're not a women either but you give women your advice.
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madrocker, I am so sorry for your loss and we've all been there. Right now it may seem like there isn't a point to anything but that will change.
Don't berate yourself for crying, you are human and showing emotion. Please eat, if not for any other reason, than eat because you need to substain yourself. Next get out of bed, you have had your heart broken but another person does not define you as a human being. Your life did not begin with this girl and it will not end with her abscense. You're better than that. You can't change what you don't acknowledge, so first thing is first you need to accept that it is over. This doesn't mean wallow, but rather work on yourself. You stated that you have paranoia, are you receiving professional help for this? Don't try to change her mind, you can't change another person. Instead change your outlook, you deserve love and happiness. Work on yourself and as your self esteem builds, you'll find it easier to cope with the disolve of your relationship. Take Care
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But my relationship was with a woman.
Heres an idea. Some start post with..Question for the men of DS... Some say heres one for the women... You guys can say..heres one for the gays...
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