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The OW is gone, now he wants SEX!
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My partners OW and he were together for about 3 weeks, and most of that time she was 2 hours away, so maybe they knew each other for about a week or so all up. Anyway, after that time he was ready to completely throw away any communication we had left and ditch our son, because she told him to.
Fastforward 2 months of emotional tourture for me, that I am finally starting to come out the other end of YAY, and now he is texting me for sex. It is unbelievable. When I dropped off my sons stuff today, I didn't just leave it outside, but knocked on door and asked him to stop texting me those messages, and he said okay. Then I said goodbye and left. TROUBLE IS, I actually can't believe it but part of me wants to do it. The stupid part obviously, but I am not letting him have that control over me ANYMORE... I just can't believe it all really. Posted on 12/16/07, 10:12 pm |
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Yikes! I would resist, but that's me. I would hate what he did. But I am not you. Hopefully someone will have some actual advice for you! 
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Good for you that you not only said no, but you told him personally. You did the right thing. I think it's probably natural to feel torn and have conflicting emotions. You did love this man and have a child with him after all. But you're doing the right thing. You're definitely on the right track and stay on it. When my stbx asked me to come home and told me all the things I had desperately wanted to hear for so long, it was painful and difficult. I'm SO GLAD that I said no and haven't looked back. You will be too.
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I would resist too, but want some people to remind me why that is best I think :) then print it out and stick it on the front door, hehe, to remind me everytime I leave the house ...
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Keep thinking about the things he did that have led you guys to be apart now. Call up a friend and talk about it. I feel that I need to stay mad at my stbx for my own protection. In time I will relax and I'm trying to move on but I don't think we should let our guard down for a while.
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Maybe he wants to 'share' the 'gift' he got from her.....
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Argh..#6. That thought alone is enough to keep me from going back.
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The OW is gone, now he wants SEX!
topic says it all.....tell him to piss off.....better yet...give him a towel for xmas and tell him to have fun!
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I agree with the others DON'T GO BACK WITH HIM, he is just using you as a fall back since his cheater partner dumped him,you don't need him to give you more grief.
Hang in there!
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way to go zoe, you stayed strong and set your boundry. and there is nothing wrong with part of you that wants to do it, but the truth is your taking your own control and power back. i hope you are so proud of yourself. you deserve much better than that and someday you'll find it.
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