Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Gasp. OMG. How could you!

how was that? lol

It is actually funny. What he has done is mean, you are just feeling hurt. You could have said something a lot worse.

Just ask the universe Karma to take care of it for you... no need for negative feelings.. he will manifest his own... stay true to yourself and hug those beautiful children...

The bad part is he has had issues with suicide attempts before and he always talked about it. But a part of me feels that way. This is killing me. I need some closure and the bastard won't give it to me.

hmmm.........how about a good old fashion "rock-em-sock-em" punch?
anger is a natural...but controllable reflex to the pain that has been inflicted on others. the secret is to find the path to accept the reality.....the pain may never disappear, but you can numb it a bit by finding peace in your own heart. whispers always.

Mean?Mean is what I did.

I sold all of his best dress shirts,pants,jackets and ties for $1 each to all the gay men I know so that they are all walking around in town in his clothes.

Now that's mean.And funny.

The babies are why I feel like this. How can he not love them?? How can he not want them in his life? What kind of person am I? I loved a monster.

scared, HE has been VERY mean & cruel to YOU & YOUR kids. No, two wrongs do NOT make a right, but you are going through so much right now. There is NOTHING wrong with what you done. They were YOUR feelings & it's OK to feel them. Next time, try writing it on a piece of paper instead of on your messengers etc. Also, that way, he can't take it out of context etc. ;) "Keep Your Chin Up!~!"

I loved a monster too. I had to laugh at what you did though, he obviously deserved it and more.
OMG leggs, that is so very funny. I have a friend who once dated a stripper, when he left her she cut out the crotch of all of his pants and returned them to him.

But I think I meant it. Thats what scares me about myself. How do I deal with this?