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I dont like him going to his X's house, only because she hates me because i'm with him, she wants to break us up, she comes to his house and tells him to have me leave she doesnt want me there when she is there. This is what happened the first time i met this lady, i was not prepared for this crazy stuff. He says i'm the problem and i'm a bitch. I really in my heart know i'm right, i know what she is and does and i feel like he shows her respect and not me. I feel kind of stupid, i dont want to be with this guy, but for some reason i cant move on. I have been moving on so many times, and i break down and end up back with him, its like an emotional abuse cycle, and so far i have not been successful at breaking it. its kind of like addiction, bad for me but hard to quit and stay clean. I want a new life, i dont know how to stick to my guns, i need support, and help, i sometimes want to admit myself in the mental hospital just to get my head together, because i know i'm wrong for being with this guy. how can i do it once and for all and be done, and move on before i'm a grandma??? I feel like i need a good man to sweep me away and lift my self esteem. I hate myself for loving him.
Posted on 09/04/08, 02:09 am |
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You need to leave to find the right person for you. If your man and his ex do this to you then they will do it to others. They sound like they belong together. As long as this behaviour continues your ex has no chance of mkeeping a decent woman. You are a decent woman and deserve to be in a respectful relationship. You will break up eventually. So why waste your time now??? hOw long are you going to go on this way before you really decide that you have had enough??? It ciould be 1 yr, 5 yrs etc. Ditch the bastard and the bitch (it sounds like they come as a package) Obviously your man is not over his ex. Why should you pay. Both of them get pleasure out of your pain. Let them know that they are the fools not you!!! Please don't waste your time on a hopeless relationship. Being single can't be any worst than what you are doing now!!! At least you can have fun being single and you can heal and find a great guy. Remember we are here for you and we want to see you be happy. 
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The guy is totally disrespecting your feelings. Even if his ex isnt a bitch and is worthy of friendship if he wants to be with you and you are uncomfortable with her being around for whatever reason she should be around him period.
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You have to start building a life for yourself with support if you want to leave him. You have to hang out with other people and do activities so that you have support around you. And maybe even when you are doing these activities you'll see or meet someone you like and it will give you hope. Just know that there are a billion or so men out there. I'm sure one of them could love you better. But you have to leave so that you can find better.
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