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I was wondering what experience any of you have had with this. I am in the beginning stages of dating someone that I really like. Not that we are going to get real serious but we both like spending time together. She travels alot so this helps with keeping it from moving fast. My STBX has already started dating or at least moved in that direction. I dont talk to her but I am assuming the email relationship that ended our marriage has progressed into more.

The question is, when your STBX or Ex found out that you were dating, what did they do or how did they react?

I'm curious because we live and work in the same area and we will definitely run into each other at some point or one of her friends will see us together.

So any experience with this. Just trying to gauge what to expect. Thanks.
Posted on 07/23/08, 10:07 am
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Reply #1 - 07/23/08  10:30am
" Do you actually care if they know? "
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Reply #2 - 07/23/08  10:32am
" My stbxh moved in with another woman when he left me. Of course I helped push him out the door. I did date someone shortly about 7 months out and he made such a big fuss, constantly telling me what I can and cannot do...it was infuriating...so i tell himnothing now...my son does all that for me....I would say who cares what you do or don't tell her at this point "
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Reply #3 - 07/23/08  10:33am
" Mine isn't taking it too well. I have a flower boy, and honestly he bugs him. However, I don't really care... Like Soon says do you really care? I told mind, just to make him feel like an ass cause his relationship is crumbling in front of his eyes... What goes around comes around. You deserve much better then her and her online love affair... Good for you for getting back out there... "
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Reply #4 - 07/23/08  10:35am
" I dont care what she thinks but I want to now what to expect as far as her behavior. I have a 3 year old with 50/50 shared custody and so it would be nice to get an idea of what will happen. "
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Reply #5 - 07/24/08  8:09pm
" even though my ex cheated on me, was already sleeping with the old married fat fuck... she went off when she just "thought" there was a girl in the house when she called once.was kind of comical ...

so be prepared to be ... entertained... ? :) "
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