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Is Sex the glue in relationships?
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I was a frigid wife. I think in a nutshell it destroyed my marriage. I used to "buy" myself time to just get away from my husband. He was loving and understanding up to a point and then just ice cold towards me.
Kids, Post natal depression,,,how the hell do people survive it? Maybe I have never experienced love that selflessly. He tells me I am a narcissist.
All I know is Dr Phil is right, if sex is fine, it makes up 5% of your relationship and if not fine 95%!
Posted on 05/08/08, 05:05 pm
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Reply #21 - 05/25/08  9:40am
" cip...very good post. "
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Reply #22 - 05/25/08  11:33am
" I admit that me not wanting sex was a huge part of what brought our marriage down. I take full blame for this. He tried and tried to initiate it, but I just didn't want to do it. I have bad self-esteem issues and I think that contributed to it. You know the saying, if you can't love yourself, then how can somebody love you? "
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Reply #23 - 05/26/08  9:46pm
" My husband want sex, but did not want to be intimate. Does that makes sense? I felt like a sex object, a toy rather than a wife. "
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Reply #24 - 05/26/08  9:54pm
" Sex was never our problem. We both liked it very often. Three people in our marriage was our problem. "
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