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I posted yesterday about how I saw my ex's mom yesterday. I was with my sister and it threw me off. She seemed said and told me he needed to grow up and that he ran up a bill texting. Well when she told me that my mind was racing he is 37 who was he texting to run up a 200 dollar bill. So I called him and told him I needed my computer back and that I didn't need to borrow his camping stuff anymore. Well my mind was still racing so I went over to his mom's and his car was there. So I knocked and his mom answered and she said he wasn't there he was playing pool. I told her that seeing her put me in a tailspin and then when she told me about the texting I wondered if he was cheating. She said she didn't think so. I told he is the one that called it quits and she said that he refused to tell her anything he just asked to move back home. He told me he had told everyone we drifted apart and she said she hadn't even been told that. I asked her not to tell him I came by and she asked me not to mention what she had said either. Was this really stupid. I don't want to have to see him anymore. I want my computer and I want to not have anymore contact with him ever again. Please help I am at my wits end.
Posted on 05/17/08, 01:05 pm |
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Why did seeing his mother put you in a tailspin? If he is cheating that is his own stupidity. Please don't get into the he said she said stuff because remember that is his mother and she will probably tell him you came by so prepare yourself for that. Anyway take care of yourself and bump him. 
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It sent me into a tailspin because she seemed sad and then she told me about his texting which is a completly new behavior. I have never been in another relationship. If she does tell him I hope she waits until after I get my computer.
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My stbxh was my first real boyfriend. If you have the courage to trust and love again, another relationship could be a blessing if that is what you would want in the future. I hope the best for you. I know people who are divorced and are still close with the inlaws.
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I didn't bad mouth him. I explained that I was really puzzled by his behavior and that I didn't see it coming. I also didn't want her to think that I had dumped him. She really liked my sister's kids and told us so. I just said that I was as baffled as she was. I told her he told me he didn't think we were right for eachother and she has complained about him to me before. I told her I was sad but I needed my things back because I thought no contact is what I need.
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brokenheart, you will be fine and hopefully he will give you back the computer and buy his own.
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Thanks for your words. I hope so to. She said that if he didn't she would make sure he would. I told her I didn't think that he wouldn't that because he has been secretive that I am just left assuming the worst. I told her I was trying to make this easy for him and she said don't make it too easy.
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It sounds like a harmless conversation between two women that really respect each other.
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Thanks badabing my stomach has been in knots since last night. I needed to hear something like that.
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