Breakups & Divorce Support Group

I took a short break for awhile in posting topics and have found there is still a lot more in life and in me. I had some thought I would like to share......

It is when we face the hardships in our lives is when we breakdown not only emotional but breakdown the parts of our lives and the parts of us. We take a good hard look at each part in hopes to uncover something more that we missed as we went along in our life. After looking at all we begin to put ourselves back together. Trying to make each part fit just right. Sometimes it feels like so many parts and pieces just as many pieces my heart was shattered into. What I am learning is even if they have been scattered all around it is the ability of being able to pick them up and put them back together again and along the way picking up some new thought, new ideas, new hope and new goals to add to who we are.

There still have been times when I can not believe what has happened and tell myself it wasn't suppose to be like this. Then the reality of the here and now tells me that there was a reason for all of this. As painful as the experience is, there is a reason and there is hope for many more things to happen in my life. Though it has been hard at times because I do tend to go off on a tangent of why, when and how. The not knowing of what can happen or what will happen at times takes me in a direction of doubt. Doubt of who I am, doubt of what can happen and doubt of every truly being happy. Not knowing can be a burden but knowing can just take away the surprise of life. We all can say I'll never find love again or I'll never trust anyone again. It is easy to say that because the hurt is a reminder that we did trust we did love, so that is why it is easy to say never again. But time is all we face and in time so many unknown things are out there for each and every one of us.

Keep the Hope
Posted on 05/17/08, 12:05 pm