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Putting myself back together
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I took a short break for awhile in posting topics and have found there is still a lot more in life and in me. I had some thought I would like to share......
It is when we face the hardships in our lives is when we breakdown not only emotional but breakdown the parts of our lives and the parts of us. We take a good hard look at each part in hopes to uncover something more that we missed as we went along in our life. After looking at all we begin to put ourselves back together. Trying to make each part fit just right. Sometimes it feels like so many parts and pieces just as many pieces my heart was shattered into. What I am learning is even if they have been scattered all around it is the ability of being able to pick them up and put them back together again and along the way picking up some new thought, new ideas, new hope and new goals to add to who we are. There still have been times when I can not believe what has happened and tell myself it wasn't suppose to be like this. Then the reality of the here and now tells me that there was a reason for all of this. As painful as the experience is, there is a reason and there is hope for many more things to happen in my life. Though it has been hard at times because I do tend to go off on a tangent of why, when and how. The not knowing of what can happen or what will happen at times takes me in a direction of doubt. Doubt of who I am, doubt of what can happen and doubt of every truly being happy. Not knowing can be a burden but knowing can just take away the surprise of life. We all can say I'll never find love again or I'll never trust anyone again. It is easy to say that because the hurt is a reminder that we did trust we did love, so that is why it is easy to say never again. But time is all we face and in time so many unknown things are out there for each and every one of us. Keep the Hope Posted on 05/17/08, 12:05 pm |
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I have missed your posts. You have a way of touching my heart. This is so true, I am thankful for your wisdom. 
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Thank you for sharing that......it brought me some comfort on a day where I really needed it! And yes, facing the unknown is the scariest thing I've ever had to deal with and I think is the #1 hurdle I need to get over.
Thanks for reminding me there is hope and always will be.
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Thanks this is encourageing. And yes, I want to love, trust, have and hold again.
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I appreciate this wonderful post. I believe the same. The day have already been decided the book has been written and it is what I do, which road I take that will determine how my chapters are written getting to the end. Thanks for you up-lifting post. G
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Scott, you always make me feel light when I read your posts. You have such hope for the future and it is a good reminder that we all do.. When we heal, then we can trust and love again.. We change with the experiences we go through , but we can still come out on the other side with hope, love, and trust in ourselves and in time, maybe another.. thank you so much, Kimmee
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We can only deal with the here and now as we take care of ourselves. The only thing we can know is that there is always the unknown of tomorrow.
Every moment between we must be glad for what we have. It only takes a little looking around at others who have more misfortune and less blessings ,and yet who are happy with what they have, to cause pause for reflection. Love ya, KTH
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I too have missed your posts - you provide me with inspiration, of hope. I believe what you say is very true - probably without all of this happening I would have stayed the course I was going - but I have now been given the opportunity to look within myself, know that my happiness is not contingent on someone else - I am worthy, I am loveable and I believe there is hope to share that love and trust again. Thanks Scott
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I forgot to add that life will always find a way to move on, not matter how much we hurt and feel that it won't, it does. Life will always be waiting for is when we are ready.
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Yep. The only sure thing I knows about life... It Goes On!!
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