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She calls me 5 mins ago to tell me that i got a wedding invitation to my mother's wedding. (Havent spoken to my mother in 13 years) STBX wanted to call me and tell me it was there and that she knew it was important to me. I haven't talked to my stbx in almost 7 weeks. She "knows" it is important enough to call me about this, but when i asked for some care and compassion about the hell that she is putting me through I get nothing. I've gotten the Black Widow this entire time. I have no interest in working with that person. Show me some god damn compassion and i'll work with you.

I hung up the phone on her after a 10 minute conversation. Maybe the last time I will ever her my wife's voice.

I'm a fu*&ing wreck right now. make it go away!
Posted on 05/17/08, 11:05 am
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Reply #1 - 05/17/08  11:38am
" i wish i could make it go away for you. for some reason we have to suffer through all of this. hoping it's for the best and will better our lives. i know thats where my life is heading. enough being used. for now, i'm alone, being good to myself working on myself. my goal is to love,respect myself and be happy. you have spent enought time being a wreck. pull it together and try to have the rest of a good day. do it for you, you deserve it. "
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Reply #2 - 05/17/08  11:43am
" Have you asked her to attend both individual and marital couselling. ...sounds like you both could use it. "
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Reply #3 - 05/17/08  11:49am
" Her reply to counseling is "if you force me to go the required 3 times i will go, but i will not participate." She is a cold hearted woman, and I feel completely idiotic for not thinking women can be like this. For any man on here. Stay away from this one! "
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Reply #4 - 05/17/08  12:09pm
" Take a deep breath; go outside and try to enjoy the beautiful sunny day in PA. "
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Reply #5 - 05/17/08  12:11pm
" Go yourself then,,, if she really is as you say..you need a professional help to naviagate in the future and keep the lines open to your children. "
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Reply #6 - 05/17/08  12:35pm
" i am so sorry. something is broken inside her. its easier for her to be this way to protect herself from something. she isnt in any place to be a human right now. you dont deserve it. there arent excuses for her but it seems like whatever you do isnt going to touch her heart. the hope is she can become a human and a good parent someday. my stbx is an alien. i honestly dont know what happened but hope he can be a good parent. sorry you have to deal with this person. "
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