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This place is simply amazing! You folks are wonderful - you allow me to vent, you come back with your support, your thoughts, your words of advice, you help me get back to a better place.
I will survive this crap. I left for awhile tonight - went out wandered around the grocery store - now that's excitement for a Friday night! the dollar store and another store Giant Tiger - just wamdered around looking at people - knowing that I'm not alone in this life of mine.
My kids are out having fun tonight - the way it should be - they are allowed and I encourage them to have fun, to enjoy their friends. This holiday weekend was always a fun time when I was young - how things change. I realize I have much more to be thank ful for than sad about - I've only lost one person - I have so many others here for me. The day is drawing to a close - tomorrow I will wake up - I am going to tackle packing his stuff up - I want it out.
I guess part of the way I was feeling today was out of fear - I was afraid he was going to come up - I just don't want him here - I don't want to see him - I don't want to pretend it's all right - because its not. I have a 20 year old son with an ulcer - and it acts up when he talks to his Dad - nothing he does is ever good enough for the man, - that's no way to live - I will contine to support my kids, encourage them, love them no matter what they do I simply love them for them - I see both the good and bad parts of both of us in them - Believe it or not I've come a long way in 11 months - he accused me of not loving myself and that pushed him away - all I can say is that I believe in myself - I do love myself to know that I have lots to offer - and I will share that with my friends I can support myself - I've always worked and I'm not afraid of working. I believe that there is a bighter future ahead - and would remind everyone - that the sad days do get further apart - but they still happen and when the good days come - just enjoy!
Posted on 05/16/08, 10:05 pm
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Reply #1 - 05/16/08  10:49pm
" Do they have wal-mart super centers in Canada? It'sa good place to go to get out of the house. Open 24 hours. "
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Reply #2 - 05/16/08  10:57pm
" We have no super centre - but saving Walmart for tomorrow - I live in a city of 20,000 - believe me I gotta work it righ - I can maybe do the mall tomorrow - together with the second hand stores and then do Walmart tomorrow night or Sunday! talk about excitement! HOLD ME BACK! "
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Reply #3 - 05/16/08  10:59pm
" Awwww Bugged, You are back.. Hugs to you, Kimmee "
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Reply #4 - 05/16/08  11:00pm
" I like you bugged "
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Reply #5 - 05/16/08  11:01pm
" ((((((HUG))))))) So happy to hear you are turning the corner bugged. :) It's a long hard road...but yes, there is a brighter future. I am also glad I am away from him. My 13 year old daughter could have been your son in 7 years had I stayed. "
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Reply #6 - 05/16/08  11:02pm
" I just fill my time with work and being here on ds.I go out occasionally,but usually don't feel like leaving the house and my feet hurt after work "
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Reply #7 - 05/16/08  11:02pm
" Hi Bugged:

Hang in there. Whenever you are lonely, just give a shout out & someone will reply. Take care. "
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